Question...

First and foremost, I want to thank ever single person on here for the enormous amount of support and dedication to just simply explain what I am going through. I truly love every single one of you as I am blessed to have this site with me. I read it every night before bed. I feel good today, despite seeing the picture of the xN and OW last night. I am a beautiful person and it is truly his loss. Maybe this is the meds speaking or maybe my prayers for strength and healing are occurring, whichever, I am going to try my best to feel like the winner as I feel he wil be the miserable one, not this girl.

My question was this...how long do relationships last as a rebound or self satisfaction for the N and OW? I ask because I know if I would of laid boundaries down from day one, we wouldn't of been together for five years. I over looked it all, sadly and he would if walked. Or maybe I wrong. Any advice?

With happiness,
Lovey