the psychic vampire thing
the psychic vampire thing
i know it has been discussed at length before, and even links have been provided to articles, but i'm wondering if you all could tell me your experiences with this...
for example, ever since i did the whole forgiveness kickm i have been way less obsessive, feeling lighter and generally been able to to channel my tendancy to obsess onto other guys, school and positive things :)
HOWEVER, today I just had a little mini break down. randomly. i just started feeling yucky out of nowhere and i had an incling that maybe, just maybe, he had been 'thinking' of me.
so, i came home in between classes to gathe rmyself together, and sure enough he had been here, moving stuff in. it's no big deal because once i knew what it was i felt much better.
what are your experiences and theories on this? here is mine:
when you are with a parasitic or unhealthy individual or not with them but have to have contact or whatever, and you still have some kind of link (and sometimes you do even after NC for fifteen years like sickofit), when they think about you, or want to talk to you, they start sucking, drawing, taking. i feel in in my chest now. i used ot in my tummy when i loved and still wanted him. now i feel it in my heart. the sadness of knowing it was all nothing. sadness for me. i hope i'm making sense here. i'm hoping someone else can explain or articulate it better than i am
I guess I have missed
almostlydia
almostlydia
It's not safe
That heaviness in your
premonitions
Fierflie'd realness...
~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~
~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.
iammine
Sweetheart... who gives a phuck...
~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~
~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.
iammine
sure...
~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~
~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.
oh i am mine
of course I took the kids... and before
~~~ Keep Learning & Keep Healing ~~~
~~~~~ The best revenge is to survive and be victorious over it. Nobody can take from you what you don't give them.
iAmMine, you're a very brave
i also have decided
Good for you!
And to add to this...
susan and wholeagain
He's too dangerous to live with...
He can't tell me I'm not happy anymore :)