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#1 Jun 22 - 8PM
malloryforest
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psychic

ok, you are all going to laugh and think I am nuts, but today I saw a psychic. Before I said anything, the woman told me that my STBXH was very selfish and emotionally abusive. He has worn me down over the last few years, and whatever I did was never enough. SHe said my life was all about him, and I didn't count.

I then told her that my husband and I are in a process of a divorce. She told me about the other woman. SHe said that she is as sick as he is, and is wicked. He has met his match but does not yet realize this. She is very self centered, self absorbed and only cares about her needs. She is very manipulative, and wants to have him running around her catering to her needs. She plays very sweet and innocent, but is far from that. SHe uses sex and drugs, pot, to keep him connected. SHe predicted that they will get married, but soon after the whole thing will just fall apart. He will see what he is really involved with and will want out.

The psychic also brought up my MIL as an enabler of the demise of the marriage. She said she had always had it in for me, and encouraged her son to leave.

In terms of me and the kids, she said we are going to be more than ok. I needed to let go of the obstacles in my life, the main one being my STBXNH, and start putting my energies into the positives and the future. I need to forget this man. I need never talk negatively about him to the kids, and I needed to live as positively as I can for my children. She said that the kids were going to be fine, and they really won't remember that much. They will never hold this move against me, and they will understand. She said the father will try to turn them against me, and that is why it is very important that I stay on the higher ground.

In terms of STBXNH, his life doesn't look so rosey in the long run. He will be a three time looser at marriage. This relationship will end, and at that point he will have lost everything. SHe also said that she sees another stint at rehab being part of his future, since drugs have become a part of his life and it will escalate.

Now, I don't know if any of this is true, but I did find it interesting. I just know that I have to make a happy laugh for me and my kids.

Jun 27 - 10PM
Carolyn
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Psychics are often laughed

Psychics are often laughed at but there are many people who have a sixth sense about things. your psychic if she knew nothing about you before your saw her said some very profound, and real things that relate directly to where you are at right now. I went to a psychic with a friend. the psychic was a maid at the Hilton Hotel. She only saw 5 people a day after her job. So people came and sat on a bench. She never made appointments. She did so some phone consultations and people called her from other countries. When my friend went in I went with her and she told the psychic she was having strange feelings etc. the psychic spoke in Spanish and answered the questions. On the way out she told my 47 year old friend that she was pregnant. My friend laughed in the car and said, "she certainly got that one wrong I finished with menopause early." She was pregnant. There are a lot of ways that we get messages, books, psychics, a stranger on a bus. It is the message that is important not the messenger.
Jun 22 - 9PM
Barbara (not verified)
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don't worry

I won't laugh - between exNH and Psycho-Boy I saw a couple myself. Oddly they both to me that exNH was a "frozen" man - who had frozen his emotions out and they had slowly died and he replaced them with self-love. They said I would leave him but he'd not let go easily. All that's true. They said he would live his life angry and everyone, blaming me and everyone else for all his problems and die isolated and alone. That it would be something he did to himself. All that was true and continues to be true. Both told me I have the love of my children and always will. That as they got older they would avoid him and see very little of him because of the way he treats them. She said both are very smart and are already starting to see right through him. True. However, both of them (different places, didn't know each other - so this was odd) told me Psycho-Boy had genuine, deep love for me and it scared him. He didn't know that was going to happen when he looked me up and it bothered him when he realized it. That he was deathly scared to leave his wife & kids - didn't love her at all and was using her. And that he turned against me when he became confused and too weak to decide what to do. So that he turned to what was familiar to him. Angry with me for making him remember he still loved me - that subconsciously he'd do something to hurt me... because feeling love was something he thought he'd buried. So he went after my female friends. I don't know about all that, but some of it is true. They also said he was suffering from an incurable mental sickness that would eat him up alive. His wife would become increasing physically ill from turning a blind eye to his abuse, that one day he would get in trouble with the law and that as he got older it would be harder for him to 'work people' the way he had in the past. That he felt comfortable using his wife's money & that she wouldn't push him to get the help he needs for his issues. Both of them warned me that at some point in the future he may try to come back to me but I'd rebuff him completely. hmmm..... none of that's happened... yet. Both of them said I would meet someone new - which would be impossible since I don't date. Both of them said I would change people's lives... gee I hope so. So anyway mallory, no laughs - psychics can help reassure you about what's going on in your life. can't wait till your creep ends up in rehab. Can you just IMAGINE what a hellish scene his divorce from the GF will be? And you'll just sit back and watch the show, being well out of it! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/