The Prey of Pathologicals

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#1 Feb 19 - 12AM
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The Prey of Pathologicals

by Marisa Mauro, Psy.D.

Certain personality traits may create better perpetrators and, unfortunately certain cues may create better victims. In a study by Wheeler, Book and Costello of Brock University, individuals who self reported more traits associated with psychopathy were more apt to correctly identify individuals with a history of victimization.

In the study, male student participants examined video tapes of twelve individuals walking from behind and rated the ease at which each could be mugged. The men also completed the Self-Report Psychopathy Scale: Version III (Paulhus, Hemphill, & Hare, in press) which measures interpersonal and affective traits associated with psychopathy as well as intra-personal instability and antisocial traits. Finally, they were asked to provide verbal rational for their ratings.

Overall results confirmed a strong positive correlation between psychopathy scores and accuracy of victim identification. This means that individuals that score higher for psychopathy are better at selecting victims. Statistically significant results for psychopathy traits including interpersonal manipulation, callous affect and antisocial behavior were found.

Acknowledging that fault always lies with the perpetrator, this research may empower individuals with a history of or concerns about victimization. As for myself, a prison psychologist often dealing with career criminals and individuals with psychopathic traits, I am convinced, in the course of observation alone, that certain personal characteristics are associated with tendency to be on the receiving end of bullying such as harassment and manipulation. I have found that the demonstration of confidence through body language, speech and affective expression, for example, provides some protection. This sense was confirmed by Wheeler, Book and Costello, who found that increased fluidity projected through one's walking gait was associated with less reporting of victimization. With respect to gait, the authors provide five cues of vulnerability originally reported by Grayson and Stein (1981). They state, "potential victims had longer or shorter strides, had nonlateral weight shifts, had gestured versus postural movements and tended to lift their feet higher while walking."

Besides one's walk, individuals can purposefully project dominance thereby potentially decreasing perceived vulnerability by increasing eye contact, decreasing the use of small body movements of the hands and feet, and increasing large body movements or changes in postural positioning. Personally, I have also found that conscious control of changes in affective expression, particularly through control of fear, surprise and embarrassment, as well as the rate, tone and fluency of speech decreases one's likelihood of victimization or bullying.

It is recommended that individuals maintain the general projection of confidence via dominant body language even in situations where they feel safe. Potential perpetrators may perceive changes in body language signaling vulnerability and act on this perception.

Wheeler, S., Book, A., & Costello, K. (2009). Psychopathic traits and perceptions of victim vulnerability. Criminal Justice and Behavior, 36(6), 635-648.

Feb 19 - 10PM
narcsurvivor
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Great. What about someone

Great. What about someone whose eyes reveal the emotional state they're in? People can tell how I'm feeling even with my sunglasses on. I have decided to wear sunglasses even when it's not a particularly bright day just so my eyes don't have to give away everything that is on my mind. Same for my facial expressions -- people always seem to know or assume to know what I'm thinking or feeling.
Feb 19 - 11PM (Reply to #2)
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SAME HERE

You are asking if you are an N aren't you. For years I have had people tell me they can tell what I am thinking and feeling just by looking at my face and the expression in my eyes. I am not the least bit PATHOLOGICAL. And I am sure you are not either. So what is it with people like us who are NOT pathological that others seem to think they can figure us out by our facial expressions?

I just got involved with the same N for the second time.
What was I thinking? Because I have put myself back to the same point where I am blaming myself again. And for what?
I want to get rid of these feelings again.

Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #7)
narcsurvivor
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It's actually not that I

It's actually not that I think I'm an N, although I have thought that from time to time. Actually, I think I'm "addicted to drama". But with regard to the above article, I meant to say that I feel like I'm a walking magnet for pathologicals to be attracted to me. And since I wear my expressions plainly on my face, I feel like it is easy for an N to mess with my mind.
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
Piscesdream
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Exactly what you said

Exactly what you said TheUnfavoriteSister. I feel the exact same way!!!! Weird.
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
Barbara (not verified)
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ACONS

ACONS are normally magnets for pathologicals. ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #13)
Piscesdream
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Yeah, I don't know what that

Yeah, I don't know what that means either. I look at it and think "ACORN" and maybe the answer lies in a tree branch. =) I'm lame, I know.
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
narcsurvivor
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Sorry, Barbara, what does

Sorry, Barbara, what does ACON stand for?
Feb 23 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
Barbara (not verified)
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ACON

ACON = Adult Child of a Narcissist ACOP = Adult Child of a Pathological more direct support for issues stemming from your parenting can be found at this group: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Adult-ChildrenOFNarcissits/ I myself, am an ACON ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Feb 23 - 4PM (Reply to #12)
rache
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i'm both

sheesh,lol.
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
rache
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yeah

i knew i was fertile soil when i figured out my mother was one and dad a very probable socio/psycho path my grandmother=enabler,grandfather enabler as well....
Feb 19 - 11PM (Reply to #3)
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Body Language

I don't necessarily agree about the body language idea. I mean, I am getting better, but for the first few weeks after dealing with my N I must have gone around looking like I would have beaten the shit out of anyone who would have even tried to talk to me! Such was my anger and torment from what had happened to me. I certainly was far more hostile and not walking around looking like a victim ... but then perhaps that is me.
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
narcsurvivor
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I have felt hostile too.

I have felt hostile too. It's not you. It's just what our Ns have done to us. They made us paranoid and uneasy.
Feb 23 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
Barbara (not verified)
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it's a coping mechanism

http://www.speakoutloud.net/psychological-abuse/coping-strategies/ ~~~~~~~~~ The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
Feb 23 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
Piscesdream
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Yes, paranoid and uneasy for

Yes, paranoid and uneasy for sure.