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#1 May 25 - 2PM
Scoop
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Premature ejaculation

Mine suffered from this .I know that a lot of your narcs couldnt keep an erection due to masturbating over porn but when a man comes too fast its not because he has wanked to porn , is it ?... what causes premature ejaculation ?
Scoop x

May 26 - 2AM
TygerTyger
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I've got a weird twist on it

My N told me he used to suffer from it, and got himself into a state where, at least now, it's really hard for him to cum at all. Sort of a reverse of the same problem. Considering what a stressed out guy he was by nature, this was all psychological. Women complaining about it, and him developing a complex. The funny thing is, the first time we were together and I was giving him a handjob (in a dark room), it seemed to be over without fanfare, and he started to wipe up before I could even see anything..and this immediate thought went thru my head: "Wow..did he actually FAKE it? Mr. Sex Machine?" It wasn't until the second time we were together that he told me about the difficulty having an orgasm and why. It took him a good while, and he needed me to tell him it was okay to cum. THAT was a first with any man I'd been with. It was weird thinking about how horny this guy was, how promiscuous and unfaithful he was, always pursuing women...and that this issue was constantly there. I mean that's got to take the fun right out of it, but still..on he went with the skirt chasing. Anyone else out there have anything similar happen?
May 25 - 4PM
Barbara (not verified)
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Premature...

P.E. is considered to be mostly a mental disorder (surprise!!) there are a few physical causes but mostly its psychological. Constant masturbating & porn use is a huge contributor. So is anxiety and lack of emotional responsiveness. (again... SURPRISE... not!) E.D. can also be psychological. All my N/Ps suffered from both... BLECH! ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
May 25 - 4PM
hope4me
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i'd like to know

I'd like to know this too. My ex NH barely knew how to turn on a computer and he never looked at porn or X rated movies while at home. He slept through the night so he wasn't up doing any of that but during sex he couldn't last more than say 3 or 4 minutes. He would say I got him too excited. It was weird. Funny but if your wife does that shouldn't you be happy instead of the next week saying she is a bad wife??? Total asshole he was.