Please do comment on it
Please do comment on it
My ex N wrote me an email and i would like to know your honest opinion on it. I have noticed the NC is the only thing which makes me feel normal, because when i was reading it i felt bad like before. I would like to add that yes i have spied on him like he said in this email - I basically looked at this phone just because i was suspecting the cheating.
So here we go (this is two emails in one :
- Can you give an example when I tried to turn sth against you? I cannot remember any.
- I am sorry for hurting you, it was very painful for me as well.
- I tried every day to be with nice with you and show how much I love you and you tried to spy after me
- If you see yourself as successful, than it is very good, sooner or later I hope you will be able to behave normally with me and we can have a normal chat. Successful people look normal and have no fear.
- You gave love for the person who also gave you lot of love and I loved you before and after you loved me.
- I guess you can protect yourself like this, however i think if you have a real boyfriend that you love, it will protect you better than this strange behavior.
- You meant probably more to me than the other girls because I stayed with you much longer than I should have.
- The biggest present during our relationship was when I saw you happily smiling.
- I wish I could stop loving you. Every time I write to you I know it is not over for me yet.
I did not have another girlfriend, I wanted to meet other people to find out what is happening to them. I did not want to tell you about it, so as to avoid a bad feeling from your side. You were spying, and injuring yourself, so at the end of the day I had to give up trusting our relationship. I did not start another one, but I need my rights to see other people. Do not forget they are very far, it was only you I had a chance to live with. Not with them.
I did not move away from our relationship easily, I spend 1,5 years with you after the first time i had to realize, that this relationship is going to fail. Nevertheless i tried everything i could to keep it together.
Every morning I woke up and wanted to give you a feeling of being secure, being loved.
I only want to have a backup of another person, when I have a serious issue with the first one. Basically I wanted to have a clean page with you, so we only think about ourselves. And we trust each other, but you were arguing and spying after me all the time, therefore the only way for me to keep our relationship alive was to meet other people and do not feel closed in into a potential failure.
Word Salad
Me and my exN we are both
That's interesting. And
Yes you are right. We both
OMG - i only want to have a
"I want to meet other people
"I want to meet other people
i didnt even read lisa's
Ewa
Wow!
wow
Ewa
I totally agree with Lisa
This is the biggest load of
Ending the dance
thanks
This is what I saw
"I guess you can protect
He is telling you...
I agree
EWA
Aceonelady
Right On, Aceonlady!
I have already dumped him
What a total mess
Important lesson EWA
My honest opinion is he's
Good to know
yes they do write the same
All bullshit
yes
I used to work with my N as