Plans...
Plans...
I've been doing a lot of reflecting today, and something that always drove me crazy was my exN's complete inability to make PLANS.
His famous quote was, "My plan is to have no plans."
I remember one night after work I had just gotten to his place, and was waiting for him to come home for dinner. I waited and waited, and when he didn't call, I called his cell. When I asked him when he was coming home, he got all defensive, and that's when he first made that "my plan is to have no plans" comment. Then he said, "I might be home in 2 minutes; I might be home in 3 hours. Figure it out yourself." Oh, it gets my blood boiling just thinking about that conversation that night. I just couldn't believe that someone could be so inconsiderate of someone else's time and feelings. And he supposedly LOVED me!
I guess their "plan" with "no plans" is to keep us confused as hell?? They like to "keep their options open?" Has anyone else experienced this insanity?
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yes completely disrespectful
I'm starting to wonder if mine was a narc
HA!
Ohhhh….the food thing. He
But
Oh, I was just kidding. But
Yours was probably just old
betteroff
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
I know! I love to make that
betteroff
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
making plans without him
I am pretty sure he had the
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I am guessing...
Well, of course! He always
"I dont make plans"
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
well he also probably liked
Exactly!
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
I remember
I could have written that!
typical
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
"I told you, this is why I
Yes, all the time. I'd ask
Yep!