Pity plays

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#1 May 30 - 5AM
tootsgee
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Pity plays

HIya

I was chatting to my mom last night about the N ex and as we were chatting I mentioned something he said to me.. she called it out as a pity play which when she said it I recognised it as such... my problem is I cant seem to recognise pity plays.. I think as an empath I really struggle with it... I just try to make people feel better all the time.....

As a pity play is one of the big warnings of a N I need to get better at recognising it and I wondered if anyone had some thoughts on their own experience of pity plays...

xx

Jun 1 - 3PM
Done sourcing
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As empaths we need to

May 31 - 9AM
janemarie
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They are academy award winners!

May 31 - 2PM (Reply to #27)
spinning
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janemarie...were we with

spinning

May 31 - 2PM (Reply to #28)
janemarie
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Spinning...I wouldnt be surprised if they were the same man!

Jun 1 - 10AM (Reply to #31)
DawnWins
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"No one, and I mean NO one

May 31 - 2PM (Reply to #30)
spinning
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Oh, jm! I'm more convinced now

spinning

May 31 - 2PM (Reply to #29)
Used
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Nothing surprises me

May 31 - 8AM
florence (not verified)
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Compassion

May 31 - 8AM (Reply to #25)
florence (not verified)
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Exhausting

May 30 - 4PM
Reason2Believe
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Wanna B Rockstar

May 30 - 11PM (Reply to #22)
tootsgee
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mmmm when you start to think

May 31 - 6AM (Reply to #23)
Reason2Believe
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In retrospect

May 30 - 9AM
DawnWins
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My N's pity plays were of

May 30 - 10AM (Reply to #20)
tootsgee
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ha ha dawn that made me

May 30 - 8AM
lessonlearned
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exN's biggest pity play

May 30 - 10AM (Reply to #18)
tootsgee
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omg!! this is the sort of

May 30 - 10AM (Reply to #17)
Deidre99
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his rant would be almost

May 30 - 8AM
Deidre99
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I think that pity plays are a

May 30 - 8AM (Reply to #13)
tootsgee
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you see ... its like

May 30 - 8AM (Reply to #14)
Deidre99
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You recognize it when you

May 30 - 10AM (Reply to #15)
tootsgee
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towards the end I started to

May 30 - 7AM
tootsgee
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LE I had the one about his ex

May 31 - 8AM (Reply to #11)
Janie53
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Tootsgee

May 30 - 6AM
Janie53
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Tootsgee

May 30 - 10AM (Reply to #6)
Rising Dawn
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You hit the nail on the head

May 31 - 8AM (Reply to #7)
Kaz
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I have given him the benefit

May 31 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Reason2Believe
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Yes, they do

Jun 1 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
Kaz
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Yes the normality is

May 30 - 6AM
Lucky Escape
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So many!

May 30 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
tootsgee
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its interesting actually cos