Physical appearance
Physical appearance
Well here's yet another curiosity I hadn't really faced until today. It was hard to remember him crying, and me thinking it was real emotion, only to find out he was upset because he didn't find me attractive.
Anyway. I'm tall, 6 feet. I am not fat, but I did gain some weight and it got to him. I'm not saying any man should be happy joy joy when his woman gains weight. I knew it didn't make me look fab. I did what I could to lose it though, unfortunately in the worst way. I abused diet pills. I was shy of showing him my body during intimate times because he never really acted like any part of me was spectacular aside from my goodies.
He didn't like the way I dressed from the beginning and even went as far to suggest what I should wear that he finds attractive, and even though I tried in the end he gave up and insisted he was okay with how I dressed, as long as I knew he loved me...but he was quite unhappy with how I looked anyway.
I am learning to feel attractive again through my flaws. My teeth, my hands, my big old butt, my stomach (I had two kids, it's not totally flat)...etc.
I was wondering if anyone went through this with their Narc? What steps have you taken to feel attractive again without having to go over the top? I really don't have the money to go get an all out make over or pedicure or something haha.
I have no doubt you are all
i spend most of my teenage
ROCK ON thebig payback...
spinning
Oh well, let's see...
The devaluing...I don't miss that!
good one.
Oh yes...
thanks for the smile...
Yeah -- "fluffy"
A great response....
No words!
Hahaha -- IB, you're hilarious!
They say a woman dresses
omg i love you!
great tips on detoxing from
My X before the NARC/pimp
Nothing like a grown man
Yeh it was a real cold
I always dressed for men.
Aww, I like your color
Thank you so much! I'm glad
You're not the only one. Just