perhaps a stupid question....
perhaps a stupid question....
I was wondering about if there ever is a point where NC ceases to matter.
I've been religious about NC. Well over a year. No emails, no phone-calls, no FB interaction, no texting. Nothing. It hasn't always been easy, but it has been worth it. I rarely see him, and other that the first few months after we split, he has never tried to contact me. All his early attempts to contact me went unanswered.
All this said, I do, on occasion see him face to face. I am not seeking him out. But it does happen. Tonight, for example. I was nordic skiing. Notice his vehicle in the parking lot when I get there. Walk into the waxing room to put my ski boots on - there he is. I ignore him. He doesn't talk to me. But here's the thing - it feels kind of ridiculous at this point. I mean, i don't want a dialogue, a friendship, or a relationship....but after all this time - wouldn't a simple hello be better.....?
I've been walking the no contact line so long....I don't really know if there ever is a course correction to be made.
Thoughts.
If you leave a window open a
Me too, I think it is dangerous
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No CONTACT... He's CRAZY..
I agree with the responses so
The problem with a "Hello" is
Yes, I agree.
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