Passive-Aggressive
Passive-Aggressive
Bumping up the discussion on passive-aggressive behavior. I've been googling this since it came up here recently and I'm blown away. This link explains the ExN to a tee...
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/6679/whats_up_with_the_passive_...
It actually made me feel sorry for him. Not empathy but compassion. It gave me some peace too. It's funny because he used to tell me that I was too passive-aggressive with my mother. I had no idea that he was projecting.
In fact - until the D&D, I was so unaware of any of these psychological abuse terms. I never knew what P-A, projecting, gaslighting, or any of that other stuff was or meant. Nor did I really understand how my own upbringing made me react to certain people the way I did. Now I see that I have had 3 other influential Ns in my life: another boyfriend and 2 close females (a teacher and a boss). Wow. I guess I'm grateful for one thing - this whole exeperience sure has taught me a lot more about myself than I ever knew before. I just wish I didn't have to learn it in such a hard way.
Peace to you all today.
Morty
Bodhi - I read the PA Book
Bodhi
GiGi9
"Be who you are, and say what you feel; for those who mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss
Bodhi - It's on hold
yes exactly
Morty
he started calling me PA this year
this was turned against me
Believe in yourself!
Terri
This is scary.
shudder!
Web Of Lies - My Life with a Narcissist
http://www.sarahtateauthor.com/
http://singlemumsal.blogspot.com/
been reading up on Passive Aggressive
Web Of Lies - My Life with a Narcissist
http://www.sarahtateauthor.com/
http://singlemumsal.blogspot.com/