Is the OW an upgrade?
Is the OW an upgrade?
I think about this alot. His OW is not ugly , I look at her though and wonder why or what does he really think of me? We are totally different and I had no idea he likes his women this way. When I would wear makeup , get my nails done, or hair it was a problem. This OW wears makeup galore , gets her nails done often and hair . I remember while he was seeing her he would say things when I would put on makeup saying " i got to put my face on to look cute" then when I see her I was like are you kidding me? Her makeup makes her look like bozo the clown I'm not even fabricating its not appealing on her it doesn't fit her skin tone. But when I would do it , it was a problem. He would say things about my weight too and this OW is a reformed fat girl now that is what really hurts me. So I was too fat for him. I think back and say I probably disgusts him when I would take off my clothes. Then I think of his hoovering attempts all that stuff he was throwing compliments left and right it made me feel like he forgot who i was. I told him i know i look good i don;t need you to tell me this, the look he had on his face was like "you do"? WOW damnit lol I think the breaking NC is causing me to think like this . anyways anyone else going thru this or am i the only one ?
Life is real and we need real ‘enduring’ love...
Why would you think about it?
An "upgrade" to a NARC, means
thank you for reminding me I was just an object
The Violent Affection for the OW
I mirrored him for years so i
I mirrored him for years so i
Sideways
the ow is...
stay~strong
EXCELLENT Disillusionedx2!
You must be joking
too funny
you know you're right because
both OWs are downgrades
Upgrade?
Done Sourcing!
Thank you friend for
I compare myself too
N's Dark Side
thanks but not quite a fit
Remember most of them really
Thank you sparky for