OW decided to get in touch (?)

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#1 May 9 - 7AM
anquilla
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OW decided to get in touch (?)

Its been 5 months since I found out about the exN cheating.

I've been NC for a long while- I've lost count :)

The OW contacted me yesterday asking whether I speak to exN. I clearly told her no that I don't care about him and have no desire to know who hes with or what he does etc. She said she wasnt with him and didnt want him either (I call bullshit.) She asks me questions like ''been up to much?'' and stuff. The last text of hers was ''Its cold here, whats the weather there like?''

Her conversations are really not going anywhere. It's strange that she even wants to talk to me after so long. She asked whether I hate her and I said '' i dont hate you, but after certain incidents, I dont consider you a friend either''.

Has anyone had this OW weird incident/talk? What is she after? Is she getting insecure cause exN has probably chucked out a D&D on her and shes wondering whether I've let him in?

Lol hell no. I've learnt my mistakes. No going back to that shit.

May 9 - 8AM
Freddie
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Maybe I'm paranoid but...

May 9 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
anquilla
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It could be, but seeing as

May 9 - 9AM (Reply to #10)
Janie53
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Just let it go, you need all

May 9 - 8AM
Deidre99
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maybe she was spying for him.

May 9 - 7AM
chris53
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I think if my Ex-Narc OW had

May 9 - 7AM
tootsgee
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i havent had this but I agree

May 9 - 7AM
Used
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anquilla

May 9 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
anquilla
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Haha- I engaged with her

May 9 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
Janie53
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Staying true to you! Keep it

May 12 - 7PM (Reply to #4)
bluegirl
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I'm betting he discarded and