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Over a month NC!!!

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#1 Sep 6 - 2AM
Miss_Jade
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Over a month NC!!!

...And loving it! I went on a date with a normal man to a concert, and he treated me like a lady more than my ex had in 3 years! Im so much more happier now that hes gone, and who knows...maybe it might go somewhere with my new date! I am so grateful with this message board, you are all so wonderful. It gave me the confidence i needed at first and i havent looked back ever since! Just wanted to say thank you to all the ladies on here. I had more fun this weekend that i ever have in 3 years. Wishing the same to all of you.

XOXO- Jade

Sep 6 - 8PM
juliamarie
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Awesome!

Thanks for posting! So happy for you! I am still in a place where the thought of dating turns my stomach so it's nice to see that it won't always be this way. Wishing you lots of love in your future!!
Sep 6 - 7PM
sunkistbird
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Good for you gurl. I'm

Good for you gurl. I'm slightly over a month too and it feels good. No Stress
Sep 6 - 2PM
Goldie
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Woohoo!!!

Great news and you are quite welcome. It is a blessing for us to receive the positive feeback because we all so want for you to be happy and out of it with the narc. Thanks for sharing, God bless, Goldie
Sep 6 - 2PM
uk lady
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Well done Miss. Jade

Keep it up because we so deserve to be in a better place. Looking forward to your 2 month NC post already. You know you can do it. Hugs, Dee x
Sep 6 - 2PM
Miss_Jade
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I want to see more post like

I want to see more post like this from all of us ladies on here! Were strong, like minded women who can be stopped by nothing now! =) Lets keep it up together ladies!! *Hugs* -Jade
Sep 6 - 12PM
spinning
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Miss Jade! Hats off to you

for the hard work and commitment you made to moving out of the disorder and chaos and into your new life! I am amazed at your progress. Your determination has been inspiring. I thank you for this post because it proves what I have come to learn: NO CONTACT EQUALS NO CONFUSION. NO CONTACT EQUALS BLISS. No contact is the key to shifting the focus off the disordered freaks and onto ourselves where it belongs. It allows our good natures to resurface and people respond to that, i.e. meeting and having fun with nice, attractive, normal men! I am so happy for you Miss J. You worked hard. There's more work ahead but I know you have turned the corner. Stay strong, sister is healing! Most sincerely, (determined to never again be) spinning. I REFUSE TO LOWER THE BAR EVER AGAIN FOR ANY MAN, FOR ANY ONE!

spinning

Sep 6 - 2AM
uk lady
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Well done

So pleased to hear that you are doing well with NC and that things are brightening up. Hugs Dx
Sep 6 - 2AM
Anabelle
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Keep on going :) Big fat

Keep on going :) Big fat congrats :) Enjoy your life and have fun :)
Sep 6 - 2AM
driftingsister
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Yay :)

That's so awesome :) this message board is amazing isn't it. I wouldn't be so strong and knowledgeable about what these people are capable of otherwise! I totally know what you mean, I met a few guys over the weekend and they are actually NICE and NORMAL!! good to see you are happy and moving on :)
Sep 6 - 2AM
Sparrow
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Very happy to hear! That is

Very happy to hear! That is great news! Keep up the good work! Your efforts are paying off!
Sep 6 - 2AM
Journey
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Congrats Miss Jade! That is

Congrats Miss Jade! That is great, so happy for you!!

Journey on...