Out of curiosity

During my relationship with Narc, it got so bad I started seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist. They are the ones who told me he was a Narc, bad news, and to "lose" him.

Not realizing at the time the full magnitude of the disorder, I just thought it meant someone who is obsessed with their looks, which he was. He also wanted me to look a certain way.

I told him that the psychiatrist called him a Narcissist.

He was furious that he had been called a narc. As I learned more and more, I discovered that he is possibly a sociopath and is a definite pathological liar. If his lips were moving, he was lying.

Fast forward to two months after he D&D'd me. In a moment of weakness, I emailed him and told him I still loved him. Stupid me. Well, I totally regretted it and sent him a subsequent email telling him that it was wine talking, not me. That he did me a favor by breaking it off with me, he saved my life. I told him that he was a Narcissist and I felt bad for him because he must be a miserable human. I told him that I pray for him every night and that I hope he finds peace one day.

I promised him I never wanted any form of relationship with him ever again and promised I would never contact him again.

My question is, have any of you called your (ex)partners Narcissists and, if so, how did they react?

JustVicki