The other side of the story
The other side of the story
So my husband's therapist thinks I am a Narcissist. This is completely throwing me into a whole new type of cognitive dissonance. When I look at it from his perspective I can see why they would think that. When highschool sweetheart came back for me (both during the engagement and the marriage) I ran to him, broke off the engagement and had a year long affair during the marriage. I have truly treated my husband like shit. I honestly have felt very little remorse and I had no problem lying to him and cheating on him. I was so madly in love with the N that I was devaluing and discarding my husband. He said in couples therapy yesterday that he realizes he has always been my plan B and the only reason we are here right now is because my first choice dumped me. Twice. And he is supposed to want me? I can totally see his point and he is right. If N hadn't d&d me, I would still be with him. I walked out of counseling just feeling like we need to go through with the divorce and the kindest thing I could do for H is to set him free. I feel like I'm no better for him than N is for me.
Me, too.
Me too! I feel like I am
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