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One tie is being broken!

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#1 Jul 21 - 2PM
rainbow1
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One tie is being broken!

So as I have stated before me and my N have so many connections. We know all the same people, know where each other lives, and he drives by my office everyday. Well my firm just bought a new building no where near where he lives or works! He wont be driving by anymore! He asked me the other day when he heard that I am moving buildings where it is and if he could help move me. He is trying to be all nice and come across as this great guy by helping me, but I know that part of the reason is because he wants to know where I am at all hours of the day! Well now he wont anymore!

Jul 21 - 3PM
Happy1
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Yes, the best thing you

Yes, the best thing you could do for yourself is not tell him where you are located. Trust me, you do not want him connected in any way with your job. You never know how he could interfere or ruin or even worse get you fired somehow. Please don't let him know for your own financial stability.
Jul 21 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
rainbow1
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I am hoping that he doesnt

I am hoping that he doesnt look up our website and find us in our new location. I dont think that he will but then again I didnt think he would do alot of things that he has done!

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Jul 21 - 5PM (Reply to #7)
Happy1
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I think if you can stay NC

I think if you can stay NC it will help him to just go away. He wants your attention right now.
Jul 21 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
rainbow1
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Who really knows? I hope so.

Who really knows? I hope so. I have heard though that some of them dont give up after years even. Or that they go away for awhile and then come back years later. We will just see I guess.

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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"

Jul 21 - 3PM
Lisa E. Scott
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Rainbow

Good for you, Rainbow! This is great news. Do NOT let him know where your new place of work is or anything like that.
Jul 21 - 3PM (Reply to #4)
rainbow1
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I dont plan on it! I told

I dont plan on it! I told him thanks but no thanks to his help!

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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"

Jul 21 - 2PM
Steph
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That's great news! You have

That's great news! You have an opportunity for more freedom from him! yay!
Jul 21 - 2PM
Briseis
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What a transparent HOOVER

What a transparent HOOVER that is, sheesh. What a leech! Your job is to exploit this new distance between you. It's up to you to not in any way send signals of invitation. Be "no supply at all". I'm glad for your new opportunity :) Don't waste this one!