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woundedsoul36
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Oh look at this!

I'm on an astrology social site (DXPNET.COM), and someone posted this topic. It is really sad. This woman doesn't realize her friend is a PREDATOR and could probably help these women.

tubbyscubby 4/9/2010 12:24:49 PM

My bff is on another international tour. Every few months or so he departs for a week, sometimes several. He's been doing this for years and where I recall him telling me his tactics before, I was reminded of it this morning when he called from the airport.

He has four women he's going to see that meet him at central destination. Girl 1 picks him up from airport, she pays for hotel, they stay for a few days and she drops him off at the airport. He hides in the airport until the coast is clear and waits for Girl 2 to pick him up. Girl 2 thinks he's just arrived. She then pays for hotel, stays for a few days and then she drops him off at the airport. This cycle repeats itself until all the women are serviced.

I never understood why the women bothered but then I thought, maybe they think they're in an LDR and where there's obviously something fishy going on...

Two flights...that at least one of them pays for/contributes money to
Hotel room...that they pay for
Car...that they pay for
Food...that they pay for
and Entertainment...that they pay for

these women have accepted this for years.

But that begs the question of what does he REALLY get out of it? Sure, women, sex and vacation, but there's more...money. He's always got something wrong and he plays the odds. Some are big spenders, others are nickles and dimes. All this to say, yes, he's a prostitute without the title.

I love my bff but sometimes, he scares the crap out of me because either all of these women have some sort of affliction that makes them seek out love in all the wrong places or his pimp hand is THAT strong.

Has anyone else noticed any signs/signals/behaviors/characteristics that can help identify a player?

Watching my male friends, here's my list...

1. Sob story. He'd come see you but he has a flat-tire. He'd take you out but he just paid his mortgage. There will inevitably be some gut-wrenching story that pulls on your heart-strings and makes you want to help.

2. You aren't invited. You've been to his home. He always has a convenient excuse, he may indeed be single, but you have NEVER been to his home.

3. Last name. You don't know it within a reasonable time frame.

4. Too available. Early on, he's too available, too ready, to eager to cater to your needs. In other words, he's a dream.

5. Invisible kids. He speaks fondly of them and yet, they never seem to be around for more than a few hours at a given time.

That's what I can think of for now. My bff really depresses me. I love him but sometimes after talking to him I feel like I need a long hot shower.

Apr 11 - 5PM
ForeverLearning
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Be Sure To Mention This Site

Someone will edu-ma-cate her real fast and she'll never be a dumb cluck again! We're like Amway, it's a pyramid scheme of education, spreading like a virus across the land, slaying scummy Players and Narcissists as we go. Soon enough, they'll all be homeless living under a bridge, moaning about the good old days when women were dumb and free p*ssy was plentiful! ha ha All that will be left is the female player 'ho's' and they can all give each other HIV until the cows come home.
Apr 11 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
Barbara (not verified)
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spread the word

time to mention Narcissism and Lisa's Book... you may be educating more than you know ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals
Apr 11 - 5PM (Reply to #3)
woundedsoul36
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My Stomach LURCHED

I did! Of course there was the typical blaming the victims...I was just so incensed!!!! If anybody wants to read the whole discussion, here's the link: http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1957744
Apr 11 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
Barbara (not verified)
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just say this...

just say... "if you want to be defensive by attacking me, fine. But I suggest you read that book and do some web searches on Narcissism if you want to be honest with yourself." Then don't read that thread again. Some people are very defensive about their delusions. ~~~~~~~~~ Repetition does not transform a lie into the truth. - Franklin D. Roosevelt Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals