Oh the irony.

I just got out of a short-lived relationship with a nice man. We took things slow and dated for a few months. We decided to form a relationship which lasted about three months. During all of this, his female BFF became increasingly jealous. He was being a complete wuss by not wanting to upset her and did not tell her to back off. After having gone through all I went through with XN last year I'd reached my tolerance level of BS. I asked her to chat since the xbf wouldn't do anything.

She and I ended up Skyping. She's a N/P ALL THE WAY! Oh my god, the word salad she spewed was incredible!! It was one of the most disturbing conversations I've ever had and reminded me exactly of the crap XN would spew.

This recent ex ended our relationship because he was angry the woman and I talked (she immediately contacted him to reveal what we'd discussed). Fine with me! It hurts a bit because he's NORMAL and we had a lot of fun. Heck, I kinda feel sorry for him, too. He is within her clutches and does not realize the mind fuck she's going to create for him if he continues any sort of relationship with her. I'm mad as hell he let me go, but freakin' relieved because she is so toxic and I don't need anybody like that in my life again, not even via third party. And plus, I understand completely what it's like to be under the N/P spell. It's a shame.