Was anyone's narc offended when you showed a genuine concern or kindness toward them? I would constantly worry about my narc when he was out late. Sure he was probably screwing around but my biggest concern was him drinking and driving. He'd get really upset when I expressed my thoughts and have rage attacks. He'd always say I'm not going to stop smoking and drinking so leave me the fuck alone. Isn't this odd? I never nagged, I was truly worried and I told him I cared for hs well being.
Another punch in the gut!