Obession

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#1 Apr 18 - 7PM
deadenddreamer
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Obession

OK - I think I have hit an ultimate low...
I have blocked him from everything - and we do not have "mutual" friends.

But I found out the OW name and looked her up on FB- she is linked to 2 of his friends that I know. And several others that they share as mutual friends.

Why the hell do I care? WTF does it matter? I just feel like she's more of a part of his life than I was...even though at one time I was linked to the same two guys - the randomly unfriended me. I guess only guess cause they were told I was crazy or something. I can hardly write I am sobbing. I knew better than to look. As if he hasn't ruined my life enough---

HELP ME any advise - how have you ladies coped with stuff like this - I know know I sound like such a looser, I can't stand the person I have become...why can't I just walk away and not care what he does or who he is with?

Apr 19 - 2AM
NarcSurvivor1
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Because you still believe he is normal

Apr 19 - 1AM
tootsgee
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Hey D I have come off

Apr 19 - 12AM
Lookonthesunnyside
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deadenddreamer, Im sorry!! I

Apr 18 - 10PM
Deidre99
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Someday...you wont care.

Apr 18 - 11PM (Reply to #15)
deadenddreamer
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reverse email search

Apr 18 - 10PM
chris magan
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it's true my ex N has a new

Apr 19 - 2AM (Reply to #13)
NarcSurvivor1
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Don't you get it?

Apr 18 - 9PM
Harper03
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The honest truth is she will

Apr 18 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
deadenddreamer
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Curious....

Apr 19 - 7AM (Reply to #11)
Harper03
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Looking back 5 years and I

Apr 18 - 10PM (Reply to #9)
Deidre99
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Healing and recovery don't

Apr 19 - 12AM (Reply to #10)
deadenddreamer
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Thanks Deidre

Apr 18 - 9PM (Reply to #7)
phantom adoration
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2 of 2

Apr 19 - 12AM (Reply to #8)
deadenddreamer
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withdrawl

Apr 18 - 8PM
phantom adoration
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Breathe

Apr 18 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
deadenddreamer
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alone

Apr 18 - 10PM (Reply to #4)
Deidre99
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What kind of man tells

Apr 18 - 10PM (Reply to #3)
rosa_lita
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Nobody is "the one" for them ...