a normal date...
a normal date...
Hello,
Tonight I went out on a very nice, normal, fun date after five years of hell with a narc with whom I have cut off all contact, including changing my phone numbers.
It was so strange...not to be unduly placed on a pedestal or conversely devalued, not to be called a c*nt or other awful names....just nice conversation and dinner.
I will not get into a relationship for quite a while, but I do think it is important for those of us who have been traumatized to force ourselves to get outside and realize that there is a whole world out there that does not involve our abuser.
I am letting men court me, and I may or may not someday make a decision, based on real evidence, that I choose to let a man into my life as a partner. He's gonna have to be really fucking special though.
Happy New Year ladies...
xoxox
I'm glad this got bumped up :))
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Allie
thank you...
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