The newest threat

He can't take out an ad like that no newspaper would take money for that. My ex-did go on a radio talk show and talk about our break-up and I worked for the same station it created a huge legal problem for the station and was one of his many self-destructive and career destroying moves. the talk show host did not have his contract renewed because he showed such poor judgement. this was many years ago and would never occur today. You have a real tiger by the tail with this guy and you are a competent, talented, well paid, woman who just walked into a hornets nest with his man. I think you need to look at how he poses a psychological, physical, and emotinal danger to you. Start saving his communications, tape his calls, talk to a private investigator in your area about what evidence to gather, and then have the investigator or a lawyer talk to him. Also notice his family that his behvior needs to be monitored. Shift his interest off of you. If there is stalking you have to mobilize your resources and try and get relief. It is very hard to get stalkers out of your life even though there is a ton of law on protecting you it is hard to prove. Bring a camera with you, tape him, get reliabel eyewitnesses, and try to do your best to have no contact on your part. this is terrible to have to endure and you are being very brave. He is nuts so maybe take care not to blog or do anything that is inciting him. you have your won health and welfare and future to look out for-the h--l with him. Be smart, be safe, and be careful. Barbara knows what she is talking about.

This is the reason most if not all of the loser/abusers will at some point start a smear campaign against the victim. They hate and fear exposure like vampire’s hate and fear sunlight. Most smear campaign can start way before the victim either leaves or is left. One question is if the campaigner had nothing to hide why then the great need for this smear campaign? Why do they go out of their way to protect themselves even before anything is stated or written about them? The answer of course is simply because they do have much to fear concerning their actions and they own personal responsibility for what they have done not only to this current victim but also all those in their past who also been victimized and abused. This also explains the need to “rewrite history” and will try to get others to believe their version and not what really happened. We each of us have a history and history i.e. reality have a way of catching up with all of us. They too must at some point in their life acknowledge (even if they don’t) the reality and true history of their past. It’s that authenticity of anyone’s existence even if one denies it and even if it’s on his or her dead bed. One can deny deny and deny but reality is just that and can’t be denied! http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/2009/04/smear-campaign.html

This is really crazy. I got a random a$$ call (blocked #) at 6 am last week. A hang up, of course. Are these guys just clones of each other, or what?

don't worry I will post a little something about the law governing blogs vs. taking out ad space in the newspaper to harass someone into silence. He's toast. http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2009/07/28/harassment http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2006/07/free-speech-appears-to-be-on-side-of.html BTW I hope you made note of his phone number that he called from. His employer might like to know he's using work phones to make threats... don't you think? I will get to this after I make dinner for my kids. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for Narc Victims - Updated Daily "As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. B