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Ive been in therapy since me and my ex broke up and told my therapist all the things going on and she said he sounds like hes a N . Im just not really sure i guess im still in denial and somehow find a way to blame myself and cover for him (which i always do.)
i just want to know if anyone else noticed any of this with their N there were so many weird things that hes done that made me scratch my head, and possibly why he does these things.
- from day one just had an off feeling , thought possibly gay.
-took him 6 months before hed even kiss me
- he treated me like a child, like i was an actual baby would talk to me like im a baby, cut my food, carry me around. Fix my hair and make sure i looked perfect before we went out.
- hed get mad if his friends liked me when we met, or if they would call me and not him.
- seemed completely obsessed with me (hed take off and leave me multiple times but always come back) but then one day vanished and had a new woman and never looked back.
-he told everyone how happy he is with me and how good i am to him so that when i told them he left me they felt sorry for him
- jumps from friends to friends, never stays in one place
-obsessed with looking cool and not looking "gay"
- tried to make me feel sorry for him when he left me he told me because he was "mentally ill" and needed help (when really he was cheating the whole time and left me for her)
- didnt ever want me to meet his friends kept me very secluded , kept me from learning about his past from his family
-told me his whole family, and friends were crazy dont listen to anything they tell me
- told me he didnt have thoughts..when i tried to tell him what it was he was like..."like the guy from scrubs?"
- hides his new woman from me has no pictures of her on his facebook and when i found out i asked him he said she dumped him, which is a lie.he wants me to think he doesnt have anyone new
- he talks to me like im a princess then goes behind my back and talks down about me and says im clingy and too ugly for him
- he would disappear every weekend and would always have some good reason
- he tells everyone were still hanging out and talking when he left me 10 months ago
- every other week has a new hobby, doesnt follow through with anything ever
-told me he has no dreams or goals in life
-his entire past i found out was a lie
- would say weird quotes all the time such as "im a wolf in sheeps clothing", or that hes "impervious to psychoanalysis"
- told me hes in a higher class then me when it comes to looks (yes hes gorgeous he gets told he can be a model all the time , but im definetly not ugly like he says)
-he told me he wont go places with me because hes afraid ill be bad at something and embarass him in public such as mini golf, yoga class.
theres so many more and sorry this is long but im just curious if theres other people out there that act like this because i feel so alone
Welcome Elle!
Journey on...
Your post screams NARC!
thank you all ! its crazy how
Welcome! He's textbook!
Elle, thanks for your prayers and likewise.
Hi and welcome!
Welcome Elle -
WakingUp
Okay Caligirl - you're officially hired as my editor.
WakingUp, oh I see what you mean about N "issues."