need support today
need support today
Last week, i went to the caribbean with a girlfriend to get away from it all. And even though it was nice to have someone to be away and have my girlfriend to talk to about things, I felt so unbelievable sad. This was a vacation, that I would have gone to with the N. I missed him every minute of the day. I just spend all day thinking how better it would be with him there. How we would laugh and have fun. Despite knowing what a horrible person he is, i couldn't let go of the good times we had and just desperately wanted one more.
Its been 3 months since I haven't heard a word from him and Im in no danger of breaking NC - because i know there is no use. If he could just throw away everything after 12 years and be with someone else, there is no need for me in his life.
However, i feel extremely sad. I cry over what was, I cry over what will never be, I cry over his lies, his abuse, his infidelity, the way he treated me, the way he used me and discarded me. I cry over myself, what I have become. I know i cant fix him, but somehow I blame myself at not being able to cure him, not being enough. I cry because knowing how horrible he was to me I still miss the good times we had together. Gosh i feel empty inside.
Iv been there!!
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broken23
almostlydia
I bet you were sad. It is
Ending the dance
12 years a long time. I feel
Broken
You have my sincere sympathy
Peace. J
Not broken
Thanks Lisa, Janet, and
Broken23