need immediate help!!

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#1 Jan 22 - 1PM
dj1
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need immediate help!!

My N is contacting me at work (he works there too) via email after i told him i blocked my phone and email and to not contact me again, as of last night. he said someone looked at him funny today so i'm slandering him and am i going to keep doing it? i emailed that it wasn't true, but he only replied that i didnt say i wasnt doing it, calling me psychotic. he wanted an answer and i said i didnt and to please stop contacting me! he said he would go to huma resources to deal with it. no one knows at work, but i was so shake i told my manager, to my great embarrassment. what should i do, i'm at work now!! when i said i wasnt doing it he said ok then have a nice life...i told him again no more contact!!! Someone pls help, im afraid he will keep doing it. Im afraid it will hurt my job and chances of advancement if it gets big but i need it to stop. its a state job, much favoritism and cronyism. called hr and they wont help till i give them his name, then he will be really upset? HELP!!!

Jan 24 - 9PM
dj1
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Thanks Goldie for your

Jan 24 - 12AM
dj1
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thanks im_ always_ fine

Jan 24 - 10AM (Reply to #24)
Goldie
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Look you are a newbie, so you have no clue what you are talking

Jan 24 - 10AM (Reply to #23)
brinamarie
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My ex N used to have sex w me

Jan 23 - 10PM
Im_always_fine
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He is still abusing you but

Jan 23 - 12AM
Done sourcing
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dj1...I share custody with a

Jan 23 - 12AM (Reply to #20)
dj1
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thanks done sourcing

Jan 22 - 9PM
Hunter
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Seems to me you got EXACTLY

Jan 23 - 12AM (Reply to #17)
dj1
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i thought it was the right

Jan 23 - 8AM (Reply to #18)
Goldie
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Interesting choice of words, attacked?

Jan 22 - 5PM
indifferent
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He's trying to frighten you it seems...

Jan 22 - 3PM
shock and awe.some
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DJ1

Jan 22 - 8PM (Reply to #13)
Butterflystar
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Good point

Jan 22 - 8PM (Reply to #14)
pumpkinpie
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"the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior"...

Jan 22 - 2PM
brinamarie
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Just dont answer him. Dont

Jan 22 - 1PM
Deidre99
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HR deals with he said/she

Jan 22 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
Deidre99
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and...

Jan 22 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
Butterflystar
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If it came to a meeting with HR

Jan 22 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
dj1
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thanks. I shouldnt have

Jan 22 - 5PM (Reply to #10)
Deidre99
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there was a time in history,

Jan 22 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
shock and awe.some
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Hey dj

Jan 22 - 6PM (Reply to #9)
pumpkinpie
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I agree

Jan 22 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
thebigpayback
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dont engage, especially at

Jan 22 - 6PM (Reply to #7)
thebigpayback
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but if he is dumb enuf to

Jan 22 - 8PM (Reply to #8)
dj1
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thanks everyone