NC Really Works

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#1 Aug 19 - 3PM
RedMist
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NC Really Works

Hi Ladies

I am 2 mths LC (email only we have children).

I just wanted to tell you how much better I am feeling as a result.

Admittedly it is easier for me because he left the country but he has attempted to call me, texted used whatsapp.. All deleted and ignored. He even sent me an email telling me he was struggling for email connection (I know brilliant hey)!

He is blocked on everything and although I have my moments I never attempt to peek at his Facebook etc. I have learnt the hard way that contact only equals pain.

I smile more, I laugh more, I parent better. I take time for myself and I am starting not to feel guilty about it.

I am far from over this, 11 years of brainwashing will take some time to overcome however I am committed to my recovery.

I feel like sleeping beauty just awakening from the longest nightmare ever.

Anyway the reason I am posting is to help you newbies and those who are having some dark days. You can do it and I promise you once that fog starts clearing you start to really understand what IT was, that you can never change it and that you are worth so much more.

Work the steps, talk it out and take advantage if the support around you.

Life is so much better when you are free.

Much love. RM xxxxx

Aug 19 - 4PM
Trixy
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Thank you Red Mist

Aug 19 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
RedMist
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Trixy

Aug 19 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
Janie53
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Trixy

Aug 19 - 3PM
spinning
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RM, so grateful that

spinning

Aug 19 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
Janie53
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RM