NC Rage?

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#1 Jun 18 - 12PM
what.a.mess
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NC Rage?

Been no contact for 3 months. All means of communication are blocked. Today a mutual friend tells me that he has been posting comments and such about "people who are flakes" and "not big on their word" on FB. I know it is better that friends don't tell me these things and I have mentioned it to them in the past to refrain from doing so. But the co-dependent in me can't help but feel upset thinking that comment was directed at me??? I know I shouldn't care what other's think or say and I shouldn't defend myself either.

Is it common for them to rage during no contact? Was he trying to trigger me to react? I don't understand these people. Why try to provoke someone after all this time? So much for being civil!

Jun 18 - 4PM
Done sourcing
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He's a flake, and isn't good

Jun 18 - 1PM
Journey
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If you've been NC for three

Journey on...

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
what.a.mess
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Good point Journey

Jun 18 - 1PM
Laci423
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Rage

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
what.a.mess
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That's true Laci

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
Laci423
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Correct, rage is more of a

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #8)
what.a.mess
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ST's are horrible..

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
Laci423
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Yep!

Jun 18 - 1PM
lessonlearned
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posting sh*tty comments on fakebook

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
what.a.mess
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yeah it's applicable and..

Jun 18 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
lessonlearned
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i will be

Jun 18 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
what.a.mess
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Bravo on 2 years!