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#1 May 16 - 6AM
skystar
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NC

He is sill trying to get me to contact him. Again, still another "trade" info for my stuff. WONT CALL HIM. WILL NOT SEE HIM. His son advised that his mother, one of the N's 9 wives, has cancer. I'm sorry that the boy and his mom have to go through all of that. I'm sorry that anyone has to deal with a narc and cancer. I lost two husband's to cancer.

The N had cancer. Part of his right lung was removed. Adenocarcinoma. 2008. Two years the cancer will be back - experience tells me so, especially with lung cancer. He is also asthma and is very susceptible to pneumonia.

But I'm NOT falling for his exaggerations and lies again. Going to stay NC from him and his whacked out neighbor down the street. She actually will help him try to get a response from me.

May 16 - 11AM
Deidre40
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It TRULY is a beautiful

It TRULY is a beautiful thing, when we all can see through their lies. Through what all these attempts at communication are really about. Mine is constantly trying to bait me, since we broke up. It's mind boggling. But, NC...the longer you go. The clarity and peace that starts to come is beautiful. Then, when they do contact...or try to get your attention...it all seems like you're watching a show of someone else's life. Not your own. And you can even laugh at it. I find my ex now to be pulling out all kinds of stops. One of my friends, she said...he isn't done with you. When you go long enough...out of his sight. You haven't done that, yet. You have either replied to him, through text...or you've been on that site. Once you drop completely out of his sight (and thus control)...she said...be prepared for him to ask for you back. I don't really care. It's all so exhausting, and I'm really enjoying life without him in it. And without that website in it. I didn't realize how that website dragged me down. skystar...continue your good work! You're awesome, and you are an inspiration.
May 16 - 8AM
Hunter
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Rock On!! Hunter

Rock On!! Hunter
May 16 - 7AM
Kiwi2005
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Yay Skystar!!!

Just had to say GOOD JOB and AWESOME that you're being so strong... Isn't it nice that now you're so educated you can see straight through them? Love it!