NC

Ok this NC thing is hard. I feel sometimes that if I picked up the phone and just said it's over, stop calling, stop texting, stop calling my work and had a conversation, that maybe he would stop. Maybe he just needs to hear it loud and clear.... I thought I had done that, but maybe I need to be clearer.

I was going to block his number yesterday, but afraid that will escalate to him showing up at my home or at my work or continuing to call my work. After not responding to his text or calls Monday or Tuesday, he called my work yesterday and is insisting that his accounts get switched back. The office Manager basically told him he will have to talk to the owner when he returns next week and he said that would be fine, he is working 14 hour days, seven days a week and he would be available. Why doesn't he give up??? Why won't he leave me alone?? If I call and tell him off, will that make it stop or will it just get worse.

I just want him to leave me alone!! We had our closure conversation on Friday and although I thought that was the end all to end all, he apprarently in his mind is thinking I gave him some hope. So he is making me feel as if I need to call back and set him straight, but on the other hand that is what he wants is contact, so would I just making the situation worse?