and so is he.
And now it comes, I show you some corellations.
I am born august 26th, my father august 25th (narc).
my sister september 12th, mother september 13th, Narc september 14th,
my good guy ex I was with when met narc 3.september, ex gf of narc he was with when met me - 1.september.
And the worst narc I was ever with 10 years ago, born 12th september as my sister...
Now who says there isnt a connection somehow...weird.
The ex-Psych professor is September 14th as well. Bizarre. (September 14th is also the birthday of the narcissistic, abusive singer Amy Winehouse)
I'm on the cusp of Aries/Taurus,and apparently ruled by Venus (how fitting...)
My brother in-law is September 10th, my sister is September 24th. The pastor friend of mine who died during the D&D (he died in September) was born on September 18th.
1st Narc : Sag, 7 years
2nd Narc : Libra 4 years
3rd Narc : Cancer 5 years
4th Narc : Pisces 6 months
Hard to believe that the Piscean did more emotional damage in just 6 months than all the rest put together, or maybe he just finished me off.
By the way I'm sag, but please don't hold it against me.
I had no idea that they were narcs, where I come from (the northeast) they are just guys and thats how they all behave. It wasn,t until the last one who's behaviour was the most vile, erratic, basically incomprehensible that my friend's prognosis of him brought me to discover narcissm and NPD. That was a year ago and NC since then. Someday I will tell my story, but it will have to be in chapters as it is so complicated. I am finally getting to know me and why I am attracted to this type of man.
Yep it is so enlightening and frightening to walk back through your life and see what was really there.
Narc 1 Cancer more of a Psycho 3 years
Narc 2 Capricorn 7 years
Narc 3 Pisces 6 years...3 years in, 3 years trying to get away.
Me Aries...with a star sign like this how in hell did I put up with them?
Don't really think these signs apply to them, I think their star sign is really a black hole.
Mine was a Sag also, told me he was on the cusp of Virgo - like that made any difference - nowhere near it. I'm a Pisces. It makes no difference what sign they are...THEY'RE ALL NARCS!!!! :)
It's impossible for a SAG to be on the cusp of virgo. He would either have to be on the cusp of Scorpio or Capricorn. He couldn't even get THAT right! lol
Oh and mine was a Sag, erm same as me but without a cusp, and my previous was a Capricorn, same birthday as Elvis and David Bowie....Go figure? Sorry, I love that saying and now all my English friends think I've lost the plot....GO FIGURE????? ;)
Mine was also an aquarius. I'm a pisces. He's doing a great job trying to beat me down with words, devaluing, smarmy comments, feigned fake concern & "saving" lately. It's so hard to get their claws out of you once they're in. If he didn't owe me over $1400 and I wasn't drained financially & emotionally as a result I could go NC. I'm a single mom & need the money bad, even though I've been waiting forever & getting rage for not being good enough, smart enough and all the other fake shit he wants to down me with. It hurts so deep.
The ex-Psych professor was Virgo. My brother in-law is a Virgo as well (my sister is a Libra)
I'm a Taurus. The Virgo/Taurus story is interesting in Greek mythology. Virgo could represent-
a)Europa, when she was abducted by Zeus in the form of a bull. She bore 3 sons to him- Minos, Rhadamnthys and Sarpedon, who were judges of the dead.
b)Astraea, the goddess of HUMAN justice. In the Greek myths, Themis was the goddess of DIVINE justice. Astraea represented merely human justice/conventions/customs, but Themis, her mother, was the goddess of divine justice.
The ex-P's girlfriend had a bumper sticker on her car that said "Anubis." Anubis was the judge of the dead according to the ancient Egyptians.
So it seems there's enough variability to offer us NOTHING to avoid. :-P
Not that I really believe in astrology deeply, but somehow, I'm drawn to it. I'm a die-hard rationalist, but I can't help it! Sometimes it's uncanny how much the descriptions fit ... and yes, I've tried to apply them to others I know, and it's always wrong.
I'm a Pisces, I've always thought that put me at a BAD disadvantage in the face of a Narc. And oh, mine was a Leo. What a crappy combination, right?! Esp female P, Male L. WHAT was I thinking?!?
Anyway, I'm thinking the reason there'd be no pattern is that sociopathic narcs are made AFTER birth ...
.........it's a cat...............with a fish!
I've been through the same combo, myself. (I'm a Pisces)
It ended badly.....
Looking back, though most of my N experiences were with Aquarian men.Four of them, come to think of it.Two had the same birthday...
Oops, when I said, " and yes, I've tried to apply them to others I know, and it's always wrong."
I meant, (for example) say I see a description of a Leo, and it PERFECTLY fits my ex, I try to apply the description to other people I know ... because ppl are always saying, "yeah, but astrological descriptions are so open-ended, they fit anyone" ... in my experience, they are pretty spot-on, and not at all transferable to ppl of other signs!
By the way, if you like astrology and want to get a good laugh, read the satire books "Born On a Rotten Day" and "Love On a Rotten Day," both by Hazel Dixon-Cooper. They're harsh but pretty darn true, and it's SO satisfying to read the descriptions of the ex!! I even have to laugh over what they say about my sign, and OUCH, she pulls no punches! (They're better bookstore browsers than purchases, btw ... not a ton of content.)
I am a virgo
Synchronicity
Mine was Cancer
he was a
star signs
Narcs star
4 Narcs!
Holy Cow!
4 narcs
4 Narcs
Nevergoback
yep
Gotta jump in here Scotchy
2nd Xnh was a Scorpio. 1st
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Gemini...
Mine was a Gemini also.
Mine was also an aquarius.
He was Virgo...
mine was...
Sagittarians
Mine as well
Mine was also a sag!
Rats
Crappy Combination, alright........
I meant
first one pisces, second