Narc dichotomy
Narc dichotomy
Oh yes, he has always been a fish swimmimg in two directions and I told him this countless times while married to my exNH. It didn't help any that his astrological sign is pisces (the two fish swimming in two directions.) Today I was able to experience his contradictory approach to life, and this is while we are NC mind you.
At 10am this morning I received an email from him saying he doesn't know why any guy would ever be interested in me, and that he feels sorry for the guy. I did not respond to it. I was then served court paperwork that he has a new attorney. Oh Goodie!
This evening he picked up our children for a 2 hour visit while I hid in my bedroom during the pick up. I met a friend out for an adult beverage and returned home just as he was pulling up with the kids. He had about a 5 second glance at me while I slipped through the front door. Within 30 minutes I received the following email:
Damn Girl,
You were looking so damn delicious tonight! Almost looked like you've lost 30 pounds, guess new old dude is working you out/pounding you good.
Seriously, keep the workouts with old dude going, looking real good.
Mind you, I am not dating anyone- this is something he created in his head. If I was dating someone it would be none of his business. I also find it interesting that he pays me a compliment (yes I have lost weight since I kicked him out) while putting me down...(must be an old dude she's dating.)
I am not going to analyze this too much because I already know..the guy is a whack job. But, I would like to hear from you. The contradictory things they do within hours of each other. The mixed messages were tough to deal with while married- my emotions never knew which way to go. I am thankful for all of you helping me see the light, because he no longer has a grip on my emotions.
So, here it is..Saturday night..I am going to spend it with you guys!
Hugs!
mynewlife
The teacher/student relationship
There were no compliments. He
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susan32
She's having my baby
More Scrambled
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thank you for clarifying
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Done Sourcing I was JUST
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Narc Dichotomy
Wow what a story. Last year