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#1 Aug 23 - 10PM
tigger73
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name on cell

my exnh cell contact name would come up as 'ex husband' and when my phone rang, it made me sad, now I have it listed as
'DMTFA'. My Dutch reformed Christian father told me one time what that meant and it stuck. Please do not be offended, but it helps me so much more when he does call to see those letters come up, and it stands for Dump That M..... F...... Ass.... Get it? I feel so much better, and this coming from my Dad is BIG.

Aug 27 - 12PM
ShaynasMommy
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RE: Phone name

I like it how everyone is using an element of humor in their picks for the phone names. I really believe that it we can associate the N with something humourous about them, and laugh every occasion they come up, then that facilitates the healing. If you can laugh at the dumbass every time you see his "name" come up, then you are D&D -ing and dehumanizing him, and sooner or later he won't mean that much to you anymore. And don't feel guilty about D&D-ing him, ladies. You may question if you are becoming like him, but you really aren't THAT person. You are only behaving appropriately towards someone who isn't even human.
Aug 27 - 11AM
helldweller
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cell phone name

Mine was his last name with a heart, and then his first name because he saw it and whined that the last name was "so impersonal," then it was LIAR with the "mudflap girl" silhouette. Now nothing.
Aug 27 - 11AM (Reply to #23)
Used
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phone name

he got my mobile off me one day, scrolled thru it his name came up with his initials, he said thats what you have me in your phone, i said yes, so what, he said it should say GOD, out of the mouth of babes ah.oh yeah, he is not in it at all now. DELETED LIKE HIM>
Aug 24 - 9PM
betty2020
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Mine was "DICK". Now its

Mine was "DICK". Now its nothing cuz he is deleted forever. only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

Aug 24 - 9PM (Reply to #21)
apple
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Mine was...

WARNING!!
Aug 24 - 6PM
Amy
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I think....

I think I want to change his to "douchebag". I am originally from Jersey, so it feels right. LOL!
Aug 24 - 11AM
nhtmf
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Doesn't apply now but back

Doesn't apply now but back in the day mine Xn was POSER.
Aug 24 - 10AM
Happy1
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Mine was listed as 'cheater'

Mine was listed as 'cheater'
Aug 24 - 12AM
cluelessuntilnow
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Ladies...you inspire me!

I just changed him to "Narcissus". I am a fan of mythology and literature so I thought I would just go classic!
Aug 23 - 11PM
almostlydia
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I'm looking for the 'like'

I'm looking for the 'like' button:) almostlydia

almostlydia

Aug 23 - 11PM (Reply to #13)
almostlydia
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I deleted mine altogether,

I deleted mine altogether, as if I don't know his number, but ohhhhhh the possibilities. almostlydia

almostlydia

Aug 24 - 7PM (Reply to #14)
faithinthefuture
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LOL!

Aww yes the possibilities! I too deleted mine! But we got their number don't we?! :-)
Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #15)
almostlydia
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faithinthefuture

Lol, that we do:) almostlydia

almostlydia

Aug 23 - 11PM
Amy
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Mine is psychopath

Even though he is a narcissist! lol!
Aug 23 - 11PM
OriginalMe
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I changed my exN's name in

I changed my exN's name in my cell to DO NOT ANSWER. Yours is more creative... :-)

"Be who you are, and say what you feel; for those who mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss

Aug 23 - 11PM
savvylady
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LOL..Mine is listed as

LOL..Mine is listed as DANGER DO NOT ANSWER!
Aug 23 - 11PM
cluelessuntilnow
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:-)

LMAO!
Aug 23 - 11PM (Reply to #2)
alma25
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DELETE

Mine is called DELETE;) to remind me not to read what he is writting.
Aug 24 - 1AM (Reply to #3)
sweetsamm
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so funny

mine is nick the prick.................one time when we were in a huge fight i changed his name to fuckhead on my phone,and a few days later he saw it......he then changed my name to fuckhead on his phone,,that's how original he was,he would always copy me....
Aug 27 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
helldweller
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sweetsam

Yes! So unoriginal! If I called mine a jerk he would call me a jerk. If I called him a liar, he said, "No, you are." I kept wanting to say, "You are, infinity!" like the little kids do. So infantile and stupid.
Aug 24 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
tigger73
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I so misposted that....I

I so misposted that....I meant DTMFA......you probably figured that out, BUT, I really like the Danger one.....that is good. I might even change it around every few weeks. One I am thinking about is, when my phone rings and it's him is this..... "HE'S LYING" because whenever they are talking, they are lying....that will help to reinforce that he is a sicko. I may change that today. i layed awake last night thinking about all the lies over the years. It's funny the different things you think about and go thru on any given day, or middle of the night. I HATE the middle of the night.
Aug 24 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
almostlydia
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I finally got over the

I finally got over the middle of the night thing and thank God. It is the most miserable thing to wake up at 230 or 4 with all that anxiety and anger going on and finally going back to sleep when it's time to get up. Now I just have anxiety dreams but few with him in them. Hope you get past that soon. almostlydia

almostlydia

Aug 24 - 5PM (Reply to #6)
tigger73
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Wow, that is exactly what is

Wow, that is exactly what is going on in the middle of the night. That is EXACTLY what I am going thru....and once a week or so, I have weird dreams of him all night long. I cannot wait for the time in my life when I can go to sleep without drugs, meaning loaded up on Xanax and Tylenol PM, legal drugs, and never wake in the night again. I feel like saying F___ him right now, so guess what? Fuck him. Sorry.....
Aug 24 - 10PM (Reply to #7)
almostlydia
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tigger

No apology ever necessary on that front. The weird part about the dreams is that I would wake up and even if I tried to remember what I had been so anxiously dreaming about, I couldn't remember. You're suppose to be able to remember dreams if you think about them the moment you wake up, but I couldn't most the time. I would just wake up tired and ridden with anxiety. That has slowed down now too thankfully. I posted a line here some time ago from X Files saying something about 'dreams being the questions you haven't figured out to ask yet'. The dreams I have remembered have been somewhat amazing at the raw truth of it all. almostlydia

almostlydia