N strikes again

So I went out with some girlfriends last night and had a great time (yay)! One of my friends is a neighbor and we'd talked previously about some of my situation but she never knew who. Last night we started talking about how I'm doing and I let it slip that one of the reasons I'm moving is b/c N lives in the neighborhood. We live in a fairly large neighborhood but she immediately guessed N! She said she just had a hunch by the way he acts and then confided to me that he'd sent her come-ons via email, too, in response to a couple 'group' emails she'd sent out to the neighborhood. Basically getting a 'banter' going and then following up with some suggestive comments -- EXACTLY what he had done with me. She said she'd thought it seemed a little odd. Lord, why hadn't I thought the same? Why did I assume that I was special in getting this attention from him? Why didn't I was question it? I was such an easy mark for him.

So now I know of two women he's hit on in my neighborhood besides me. Plus the explicit propositions he's been sending my friend. And he's still trying to hook up with me in spite of 'reconciling' with his wife. It all makes me so incredibly sad. I miss the man I fell in love with. But he's long gone. So very tough to grasp that I wasn't special to him, and that the man I thought he was never existed. Can somebody please slap me and knock the CD fog away? Thanks !

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