N-Email - Is this a ploy?

Hi precious one I have been keeping up as best as my schedule has allowed ( late hours) however, eben when I cant log on I always read your posts, to keep track of your wonderful and painful process perhaps its because we share alot in common especially with my personal views about NO NC as I have said before and will continue to say For me Nc is the only "currency" I have left that the Narc did not steal it is what I use to buy back my dignity so on the NC thing, I dont budge do I feel like it at certian moments um maybe but it stays just that..a fleeting thought because the thought of the hurt, shock, and devestation the narc brought into my life, quickly, swiftly kills the thought of breaking it he sounded a bit like yours they all sound somewhat alike even when they use different words & Methods since its ALWAYS same old show "the CONTROL SHOW!" The wonderful members have been taking great time and care with you they have been saying exactly what I would say but when I read your last post I was on the air, working and actually had my Radio show partner do the last segment so that I could log on for you because you and your progress mean that much to me Your Narcissist's letter is just chilling to those of us that know that he is setting you up for an even worse hurt One that would make that woman on your couch seem like a day in disneyland he is angry you are not under his power, and he is DESPERATE! and with each passing day that you dont respond to his CONTROL he is going to find more creative, angry, not so angry ways of baiting you Badabing, do you now have your own key your own place? your not him mom if he is locked out..let him do what we grown-ups do get a locksmith besides you wont be needing the key to HIS place to witness another round of "what ho is on my couch today" will you? he wants to keep tying you to that house in your head because it is the only thing he's got left and he's using it if I am correct you do not live there anymore right? when normal people are locked out and its an emergency all they write is "Im locked out Help need key" they dont use that as a conversation about the book dont know which apt is yours do you like your new place are you going to invite me over to your new place? and the rest of that narcfilled rant he violated you he brought another woman into your home that you used to share with him her ass was in the air (forgive me, but its true, and I dont ussually speak that way) but imagine the amount of "disorder" and feeling if "entitlement" that a man would have to feel to actually carry that out normal men feel all kinds of things, sexual things, crazy ideas but when they love someone they take good care not to lose her so they keep it in thier fantasy life it dosent run them it dosent find them taking a girl from behind on your sofa Narc's dont "feel" anything, so they can do everything that occurs to them it was in the middle of the day! on your couch! remember! badabing PLEASE hear us and more than that...listen to your heart its always speaking to you Listen to your higher self it will always tell you the truth if yu cant accsess that right now thats ok we can see his writing we can read between the lines we know what it took for you to move away and for one, I wish he didnt find a way to your car that dosent feel good to me is there a way that the guard at your place could know him & his car next time? he is a narc on the warpath he does not miss YOU he misses his CONTROL OF YOU and he is really really mad so his discard and devaluation of you this time should you believe this crap and go back even for oNE conversation could seriously possibly take you to a place mentally and emotionally that you may never recover from read some of the precious souls on this forum the ones that didnt have a sis or a forum to help them make thier mind numbing journey count for something because for every avatar here there is a real breathing human being that knows what you are going through and has possibly been through it and WORSE this man is poison this man doenst need your key you have a key, its to your OWN APT no coming to your job, wont be long before he destroys that too Turn your mess into a message starve the Narc not one syllable not one breath no food for him, no supply and Badabing..that book! vampires? do some reading the original vampire stories were written about (you guessed it) NARCISSISTS! wow, he is so cliche, not even an original narc although, there are no original narc's they mimick human behavior, they are the 'dark hearts" this man is cancer for you wanna dance? Im praying for you stay close to you sis & pals this weekend keep very busy dont be alone you didnt think he would leave without a fight did you? after all he was so LOVING yea while he was taking that girl from behind on your couch notice he has s he has lost all sense of time (N trait) like nothing happened "do you like your new apartment?" "are you going to invite me over to see it" anybody want to translate thise 2 sentances for our precious sister here as I said, we think the world of you and this man is seriously a danger seriously I have to get back on the air I am so sorry I went so long, please forgive me but I think the world of you we all do be blessed k

He is so full of crap! He left you a book he thought you would like? Oh my God!!! What a jerk! Boy, he is smooth though huh? Leave the key at your front desk in an envelope with a note that says "I will always cherish the initial misconceptions I had about you." Stay strong!!

My N does te same thing when he is short of supply. He suddenly has an "emergency" and needs to speak to me. I always give in as when I ave an emergency he gives in to me. I just do it from a safe distance. Good luck hunni & sorry that was not much help but it's what I do best. Give into contact-- only to not see him and suffer from major anxity. Gee wiz! What a pattern!

Oh boy. This guy isn't going to go away quietly. If need be, get a restraining order. Seriously. It looks like it will end up there, at some point. Love you babe? You broke up with this guy? He isn't getting it. He's using the key as an excuse, but believe me...if he's using this language, he's faaaar from letting this go. Protect yourself. I'm so sorry you're enduring this.

Call Mgnt yourself and tell them to open the door and give them his number. He's full of shit. You've come this far, don't break now. Hunter