My version of D & D, please use it too! :)
My version of D & D, please use it too! :)
Deflect and Don't Validate
This morning I deflected "good luck in your sporting event this weekend, I know how much it means to you" from my exhn in an email exchange that was about our kids.
I SMH when he slips in one of these lines like he actually cares, and even if he did, which I know better to believe, its just way to late. He didn't care then, why would he care now. Like somehow he needed to be apart of my support of GREAT FRIENDS that have left me FB messages of wishes for success this weekend. On the out come, it meant nothing to me.
I did not respond to this comment, rather I made a statement about our son and hit send. When we validate its like a small image of Bart Simpson dancing and singing "I am so great, I am so great!"
Don't Validate, it gets them all puffed up.
Its going to be a great day and weekend!
Good on you..I am in the same
Granted, NC is hard to do.
Playedwithfire
Hi, Played, my sweet!
spinning
Thanks Spinning!
Playedwithfire
So happy for your growth. My