My message

I see a lot of newbies here so be prepared.. Time to put on your big girl panties..

And time for my little story..

First if you don't like me too bad.. In fact I'm to the point of burned out.. I stay because everyday.. I get a PM thanking me.. And these people are the ones who I've kicked in the butt.. They know I'm not "CRUEL"

.. Lisa... As well as Goldie are trained the area of healing..do you really think we don't get the abuse?

Now the Story... Awhile ago a member and I became friendly .. She was reaching out, couldn't get away.. Excuse after Excuse to contact. .. She was married to a kind man .. In her head, her Narc drug dealer was her " SOUL MATE" .. I told her she must cut him free or he will beat the shit out of her.. He pulled the usual back and forth Narc moves.. It got to a point .. And I told her .. I could no longer help her or speak to her because she isn't helping herself and if she doesnt move fast she will be beaten and lose everthing.. She did go back to narc..and he did beat the "SHIT " out of her and even put. Gun to her head..

Even at that she was still "In Love "with him...the last I heard from her her husband kicked her to the curb and her family wouldn't speak to her...I never got the end of the story.. My guess, she's dead..

Nice Story isn't it??? So when I see the train about to derail you're going to here about it.. Therapist's don't enable and we don't do that here either..

So to all newbies mean old Hunter actually gives a shit.... You can listen or you can live a life with a abuser.. The choice can only be yours..

Hunter