my head hurts with thoughts.
my head hurts with thoughts.
ugh...
I sit at a desk all day, trapped with myself, my own thoughts, reliving the events/conversations over and over.
I try not to hate myself for being a door mat, a sucker and quite frankly to allow the abuse. Im taking all the right steps...no contact, change in phone #...therapy. The obsessive thinking is irrating, but at least im aware that im annoying myself .... lol. I thought my friends got it and understood...but really they dont 100% and I dont blame them. I have one friend that does get it 100% and she never gets sick of me and my obsessive thoughts.
I have this buring desire to hurt him physically...I kind of wish he was dead, with his smug face and stupid
sayings...the thought of him makes me want to vomit. The
things I imagine him telling people also makes me wanna smash him.....And Im being kind when I say that. I picture myself spitting in his face. But then I also picture myself running in to him (as I am best friends with his live in cousin)(who has been so great,not bringing him up or telling me anything). and totally ignoring him like he doesnt exist.
What are the stages we go threw again, can someone repost that, so Im aware that my behaviour is normal and Im not crazy.
Thanks ALL!
You aren't crazy and being
So Powerful.
whatever
distance
It Will Get Better
stages
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Thanks Barbara!!
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