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#1 Jan 27 - 8AM
Snowflake
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My dreams

I want to study counselling
I want to start my piano lessons again
I want to be fluent in Spanish

I am going to follow those dreams and ambitions.

Today is a low day but still on NC and I know I will get better. I dont just want to get back to where I was before the N encounter, I want to use these lessons and become a better, stronger person. I dont want to break NC, I said all I wanted to say x

Jan 27 - 12PM
midnight7
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My work/career, and interests

My work/career, and interests are focused on Lifelong education. The journey towards and achieving dreams/aims/goals is invigorating, challenging, and rewarding. There are some centres in the UK where one can take the CPCAB Level 2 Award Introduction to Counselling Skills for free - a google search should bring up possible centres in your area. The Open University offers a Foundation Degree in Counselling partly by distance learning but the O.U. modules must be taken in conjunction with CPCAB courses (above level 2) http://www3.open.ac.uk/study/undergraduate/qualification/g14.htm Keep strong and so good to read you are NC!
Jan 27 - 9AM
saphire1
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I'm pursuing my masters

I'm pursuing my masters degree and working on home improvemnet. Some days I have such a hard time concentrating and its so hard to stay focused but these are things I will accomplish for me.Still nc going on 2 months.
Jan 27 - 9AM
Maggster
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Goals

I like the idea of setting goals for yourself- I am working up to re-commencing NC and will think of some things I want to accomplish as well. Thanks for that!
Jan 27 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Snowflake
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Fantastic

I love to hear about others goals, I think part of the NC is it leaves a void that we need to force ourselves to fill. We can all turn this negative into a positive, I am spiritual..I know not everyones cup of tea..but I believe in life lessons. Maybe without this experience I would have carried on not seeing the good in my husband, maybe I would have carried on without giving a thought to fulfilling dreams. Maybe without this experience I would have continued to take my family and friends for granted. I do struggle when close people die but I try to think of it as a reminder that life doesnt last forever and to embrace every day and truly cherish the good people around you. I guess my point is that maybe this was a life lesson we all had to learn in order to become the person we were meant to be on this earth.