The monster within the Man
The monster within the Man
I think one of the hardest things in getting over these men is not only to realize that they are 2 different people, the Jekyl and Hyde personality but to understand that the monster is what is THEIR REAL PERSONNA, not the good, caring side they used to initially brings us into their spiders web. That was made clearer to me by one of the women here posting a link to Sandra Brown's article on Cognitive Dissonance, actually I copied the article, allthatglitters put it on the post and thanks so much, that seems to have been somewhat of a turning point for me. i have struggled a lot and part was making contact wih him in the form of a letter ever now and then because I am having such a hard time of letting him go and as someone else said, so much reminds you of the person, it becomes overwhelming at times.and that you are breaking up with not one but two different people, it is right on the money.Whenever I have written him and I think i am done,I have received a hateful,mean spiteful letter blaming me for EVERYTHING,but in the end strangely, enough his letters and realizing how sick the man is are helping me move on by bringing his true colors to light. I think if he had sent me a caring, kind letter it would be much harder to move on...............
Amen sista :)
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