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#1 Oct 2 - 8PM
malloryforest
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missing the kids

My looser STBXNH just sent me an email telling me how much he misses his kids. Right. Really misses them. It is taking all my strength not to rip him a new you know what. The nerve of this creep. I am the last person he should be looking for sympathy from. Creep.

Oct 2 - 11PM
Barbara (not verified)
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lol!

send it to your lawyer. perhaps also send it to LOSER OF MONTH club? My God he's so full of shit... he must be contributing to global warming with all that toxic gas. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Pathologicals only discard the best, most precious of gems of people... not the worst. They despise the strong, principled, decent & honest. Their discarding of you is then their highest commendation of your worth!" - A.V.
Oct 3 - 9PM (Reply to #8)
NanC (not verified)
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Barbara

Can i get in trouble legally for not allowing him to talk to her (by not answering the phone)? I guess i can lie like him & deny it. All the court order says is he gets her every Thursday 6:00-8:00 & every other weekend Friday at 6:00 to Sunday at 6:00. It doesn't say anything about phone calls. He's working out of town so i don't think he will ever manage to pick her up by 6 on Fridays.
Oct 3 - 10PM (Reply to #9)
Barbara (not verified)
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Develop a WRITTEN Parenting Plan

NO. Make a plan - make sure he gets it IN WRITING - registered, return receipt (keep whatever you send him FACTS ONLY, no commentary, insults, etc.... JUST A PLAN. PERIOD) He doesn't call on the PLAN TIME? Too bad so sad. AND DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT http://www.womansdivorce.com/parenting-plan-template.html http://www.divorcehelpforparents.com/parenting-plan-worksheet.html http://deltabravo.net/custody/pplan5.php http://www.parentingplan.net/ if you're unsure... post your draft here and we'll all have a go at it! Never lie. NEVER. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Pathologicals only discard the best, most precious of gems of people... not the worst. They despise the strong, principled, decent & honest. Their discarding of you is then their highest commendation of your worth!" - A.V.
Oct 2 - 11PM (Reply to #5)
malloryforest
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laugh

I can always count on you to give me a good laugh when I most need one. I must admit, I did reply to his email... "No longer my problem." That is all I wrote. I think it says it all.
Oct 3 - 12AM (Reply to #6)
NanC (not verified)
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malloryforest

My exN was suppose to pick up daughter at 6:00 but didn't hear from him. He texted me at 8:00 & said,"texted you earlier, working til 6:00 pm Saturday, 2 hr drive." i texted him back & said, "Do u EVER stop lying? You kno u never texted me. Goin out of town anyway."...I wish i would have said what u said, "not my problem." I wish u would fall off the face of the earth!!! I kno I'm eventually goin to have to hand her over...but I'm not, by no means goin to accommodate him!
Oct 3 - 1AM (Reply to #7)
Barbara (not verified)
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NanC

ANY MORE TEXTS FROM HIM? simply reply with YOUR LAWYER's NUMBER... every time - nothing else but!!! and document the time, the text and that he never showed. Again. And TELL YOUR LAWYER. Don't say anything ELSE no matter how much you want to. Just the PHONE NUMBER of your lawyer. To any text he sends. Like a robot. JUST THE PHONE NUMBER. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Pathologicals only discard the best, most precious of gems of people... not the worst. They despise the strong, principled, decent & honest. Their discarding of you is then their highest commendation of your worth!" - A.V.
Oct 2 - 9PM
Carolyn
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It is just a game to make

It is just a game to make you suffer. Remember No Contact really works.
Oct 3 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
4joys (not verified)
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Don't let them have access

Don't let them have access to you via email or text.Cowards and Narcs love this form of communication because it is not direct. It lends itself to unclear messages and foggy intentions. If you have kids, allow them only the use of voice mail, through your lawyers, and real mail. Don't pick up the phone directly when they call. Let it go to voice mail. If some of you have to record messages because of legal issues, do so. Pausing before talking to a Narc is always good and voice mail allows you that time to think.
Oct 4 - 2AM (Reply to #3)
Empathy
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myne would never ring

i cant remember ever getting phone call off my ex N. Gee how lucky am I? he was expert at silent treatment. I WILL Survive.