mirroring

Or he'd mimic things he read in "War and Peace." I once told the ex-Psych prof during the final D&D that what we had wasn't inappropriate because we weren't engaging in public displays of affection, that it wasn't physical. Like a lawyer, I argued that emotional intimacy is FINE, but sex, the physical stuff,is a NO-NO. Bizarrely, since he felt(?) guilty about his girlfriend, I think because of what I said, he didn't engage in public displays of affection with his girlfriend(??) He took what I said out of context, applied it to a totally different situation... and it didn't make sense. I talked about a jealous character in a French Neoclassical play who falsely accuses her stepson when she finds out he loves someone else, and I told the ex-P I would NOT do it to him because he had a girlfriend... he ended up falsely accusing me. He took his mimicry to surreal heights. In all seriousness, he once said that he's a professor because his father is a professor. He'd be telling me what to eat&feign concern because his father is diabetic (yes,it true's,something he did NOT lie about), as if I were diabetic. The ex-P wanted to be mirrored, but it depended on what HE wanted. I got the same translation of "War and Peace" as him... and he was LIVID. I was baffled. Why was he so freaked out¶noid? He was interested in Wittgenstein. I'd bring up Wittgenstein... he'd swiftly change the subject (or go silent treatment) His stock response to me mocking him the same way he had mocked me was to RUN OFF. He totally lacked imagination, and in a weird way, very suggestible. When I told him that if I were paranoid about students reading his writing without paying, I told him to get published. He is a published writer.

When you slap someone in the face, you know you are doing it right? And not somebody else. They do that purposely for HOOKING you, to keep you there, as longer as possible. They are dead inside..and run from feelings and emotions, like alien form, lol. From everything "human" and "happy". Their need of control, comes from fear of being abbandoned. And I`ve said it before as a joke, that my ex N, is probably in love with his MOTHER! Or maybe he`s gay, or who knows. It comes a time, when even those things don`t matter anymore, because your survival, and life, matters more.

Does he have access to your computer?

maybe he does, maybe he's been looking thing up about narcissism , they are very strange anyway