Met a guy who is "not my type"
Met a guy who is "not my type"
This is actually pretty funny for me to realize...
I met a guy this weekend who is "not my type". He is really tall, well built, Dutch (blond/blue), kind of blue collar... OH and he is NICE. Like super sweet. We have mutual friends and we were all hanging out together. We hit it off.
I have been struggling with the fact that he is not a "professional" type and he drives a truck. Then I realized that my "type" typically = asshole! LOL!
I have had an issue with more blue-collar type guys because I do pretty well, and when I was married, my husband (sometimes abusive) was intimidated by how much more money I made than him. But I guess I need to realize that everyone is not the same, and that I should give this guy a chance (he makes about as much as I do, just in a more blue-collar field of work).
I have also noticed that I have typically gone for Italin or Latin guys - dark hair and eyes. This is completely different for me. I hate to stereotype, but I must admit that the Italians and Latins are far more controlling than other guys I have dated.
So all in all, getting away from "my type" may be a very good thing! :)
A very good thing
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Good advice! Your therapist