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Messaging the OW?

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#1 Nov 4 - 3PM
Lostgirl85
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Messaging the OW?

Has anybody ever written (email or message) to the OW? I've been contemplating doing this for some time, but wonder if its purpose would do any good? I feel like I should reach out to hopefully spare her all the emotional agony I've been through but then wonder if this completely oversteps all boundaries?

Nov 6 - 2AM
Dee30
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I did.

Nov 4 - 8PM
Goldie
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I LOVE this answer, so there you go, problem solved, NMFB

Nov 4 - 7PM
Done sourcing
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Not one person on here has

Nov 4 - 6PM
NoMoreFreakBoy
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It will backfire on you

Nov 4 - 3PM
Laurelly82
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I did it. It doesn't work and

Nov 4 - 3PM
yana
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There's no need to reach out

Nov 4 - 4PM (Reply to #12)
Lostgirl85
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Thank you Yana!

Nov 4 - 3PM
Journey
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Seriously, there is no point

Journey on...

Nov 4 - 3PM
Used
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lostgirl85

Nov 4 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Hunter
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Yes used.. Three times just

Nov 4 - 4PM (Reply to #3)
Lostgirl85
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Used and Hunter

Nov 4 - 8PM (Reply to #7)
alocin72
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I completely agree with what

Nov 5 - 4AM (Reply to #9)
Used
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As the old saying goes: you

Nov 4 - 10PM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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Alocin

Nov 4 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
Done sourcing
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Lostgirl...here is what I

Nov 4 - 8PM (Reply to #6)
ItsFinallytime
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Well said, as always, DS. I

Nov 4 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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You do realize used and are