Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!

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#1 Dec 24 - 11AM

betty2020

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!

I want to wish you all a very Merry Christmas. As we approach this new year take time to reflect on the positive things in your life. For those that are Narc free!!!! YEAHHHHH! Rejoice and be proud that you have made it over this hump. It takes a lot of courage and will power to take that leap of faith into the unknown. Letting go of the fear that once kept you paralyzed is now a thing of the past. A new and improved life is on the horizon for 2011!!!

For those members still involved and silent, rejoice in the fact that you have found people that know and understand what you have been through. You are on the verge of an awakening that will give you the power and strength to move forward into No Contact. Knowledge is where it all begins. Trust yourself to know what is the right plan of action to bring the peace you so need and desire. Know that we understand this is a process that takes time and baby steps. Make 2011 the year of conquering your fears. Fear of change, fear of the unknown. As fear keeps you in contact and this contact is the cause of your pain. In 2011 no longer will you be a spectator in the drama of your life, you are now looking towards actions that will will give you the peace and comfort you are in search of. Take a risk. Be bold. Live your life. There is a beautiful world that has been on pause waiting just for you!

We have a lot to look forward to in 2011. Our new website and recovery program are going to be a very welcomed gift. I will be on the site all day on the 31st of December so I hope that all of you that will be spending New Years Eve with us connect with me on the chat. I would love to talk to you one on one.

Have a wonderful holiday....blessings to your family.....and lets bring in 2011 with a positive actions in our recovery!! We all deserve it!!!

Lots of Love

Betty
xoxoox

#2 Dec 31 - 3PM

smokabear

happy new year

love this post letting go of fear was very hard for me but as time goes on I really feel good ,no more ruined holidays, and I can be or do anything I want to do ,this is going to be a great new year for all of us

#3 Dec 24 - 7PM

StillHurting

Thank you, Betty!

Enjoy the holiday season!

#4 Dec 24 - 8PM (Reply to #14)

betty2020

You too Stillhurting! Merry

You too Stillhurting! Merry Christmas and happy new year!! Im over on facebook if you feel like chatting. Just hanging low with the cat tonight. :) Big Hugs!! xoxo only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

#5 Dec 24 - 4PM

michele115 (not verified)

Merry Christmas Betty

Hope you have a wonderful holiday.

#6 Dec 24 - 6PM (Reply to #12)

betty2020

Merry Christmas to you

Merry Christmas to you Michele. Hope your holiday if full of peace and happiness!! Lots of Love your way!!! xoxo only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

#7 Dec 24 - 2PM

blueeyes

Happy Holidays!!!!

Lisa, Betty, Briseis and MsV, thanks for your guidance. I'd be spending this Christmas cofused and abused had I not found you!!!! Thanks to all of the wonderful members here for helping everyone! This year will be a great one all! The new site will bring MANY more to discovery and recovery. I can't think of a better way to spend New Years Eve! Much love everyone.

#8 Dec 24 - 6PM (Reply to #9)

betty2020

Happy Happy Narc Free

Happy Happy Narc Free holiday to you Blueeyes!! Looking forward to 2011 and all that is in store for us. Im so happy to have you on board and I love the music btw... I have to tell you, You look like my favorite artist "Sia", A bit. Your prettier of course but i see the resemblance. Lots of Love to you this holiday and give those kiddies a big hugg for me!! xoxoxo Betty only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

#9 Dec 24 - 8PM (Reply to #10)

blueeyes

I love Sia

I have some Sia templates for the new site ready to go, I should post one tonight. I love the Sia song you posted! Hilarious. I gotta say, I never was told I looked like Sia! Thanks tho. haha. I usually get Kelly Pickler or Meg Ryan. I just think I look like my Mama. Narc-free Christmas!!! Yes, for the first time in 20 years? Feels good. Cheers!

#10 Dec 24 - 1PM

alittledark

Merry Christmas to you Betty

Merry Christmas to you Betty and all your encouraging words. It is no accident that you are helping so many people. God bless you in the remaining of 2010 and many,many more years to come! I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace. --Helen Keller

I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace.
--Helen Keller

#11 Dec 24 - 6PM (Reply to #7)

betty2020

Thank you alittledark! And

Thank you alittledark! And a very Merry Christmas to you!!! Very soon we will be changing that name from "alittledark" to "alittlelight" shining bright! Hope you have a wonderful holiday! Lots of Love your way this holiday!! xoxo Betty only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

#12 Dec 24 - 12PM

Lisa E. Scott

Merry Christmas!

I love what you wrote, Betty and couldn't say it better myself. Here's a quote by an unknown author that summarizes the essence of this season: "If, as Herod, we fill our lives with things, and again with things; if we consider ourselves so unimportant that we must fill every moment of our lives with action, when will we have the time to make the long, slow journey across the desert as did the Magi? Or sit and watch the starts as did the shepherds? Or brood over the coming of the child as did Mary? For each one of us, there is a desert to travel. A start to discover, And a being within ourselves to bring to life." ~ Author unknown With the launch of our 6 Step Recovery program, we will begin to focus on finding ourselves again. This Christmas, I want you all to appreciate what a gift and a blessing you are, not only to yourself, but to the lives of many. I know I am grateful to have you in my life. Thank you for being a blessing in my life. Merry Christmas! Lots of Love, Lisa

#13 Dec 24 - 6PM (Reply to #5)

betty2020

Merry Christmas Lisa!!

Merry Christmas Lisa!! Thank you for the opportunity to be a part of such a wonderful community. Thank you for being the catalyst to bring me to the light. Thank you for sharing my vision. Thank you for being my friend, trusting me, loving me, and nurturing me even in my darkest moments. Thank you for being you! Great things are on the horizon with all our new ventures. I couldn't ask for a better partner to travel down this road with! Cheers to 2011!! Luv you! Me xoxoxo only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

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#14 Dec 24 - 1PM (Reply to #2)

alittledark

...and Merry Christmas to

...and Merry Christmas to you Lisa. You must be a hero to so many people who have and are still struggling with abusive people in their lives. I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, but your work and accomplishments speak mounds about the good you have in your heart. Thank you Lisa for www.vainencounters.com and all the time and effort you have put into all the resources (book, etc.) you have made available. I have not quite made it to the place where everyone else is yet as Betty spoke of in her post...and feel like I am failing miserably with my "addiction" to his verbal affirmations, but I feel a solace here on the website and wanted you to know how much I appreciate you and your work. I pray for your continued strength peace and happiness. Have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace. --Helen Keller

I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace.
--Helen Keller

#15 Dec 24 - 9PM (Reply to #4)

Lisa E. Scott

alittledark

Why thank you so much for your sweet post. I'm very touched and am so glad you found our forum and find solace here. You are never alone. You will progress and you will get to the point Betty spoke of in her post. I love your Helen Keller quote! Merry Christmas and happy new year! xoxo, Lisa

#16 Dec 24 - 8PM (Reply to #3)

Lisa E. Scott

Betty

You too, sistah! I am so fortunate to have you as a friend and partner. Thank YOU for being such a good friend and always being there for me. Luv u lots! xoxo

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