Manipulating the Narc, it works
Manipulating the Narc, it works
I am working on a plan of NC and it's going well. Since I have to live with him until the plan is out, I have read about how to talk to him in the meantime. Well, it is driving him crazy. Manipulating them works very well. He has no idea what is happening and he doesn't like me spending all of my time reading GREAT books on his disorder. He thinks they are self help books. HAHA! He finally asked why I am reading all the time? I said "I want to educate myself". So, whenever he gets a chance he makes fun of me for reading. I ignored it all weekend until last night when I needed to ask him to take our daughter to the Dr, she has a fever. He said "FINE" I said "Are you sure? You seem pretty mad these days." He has been walking around saying things like:
I wish I would get hit by a bus'I wish I was dead
I dont care anymore I won't be alive for long...ECT.
So, naturally he wants sympathy, I assume. He was sad and crying, then when a week or so went by and I have not changed my evassivness. I guess now he is angry today. Yikes. I texted him to ask what time I should make the dr appt. He called my work and screamed that I am so difficullt and to make the F*cking appt and he will take care of his daughter. Yikes. What do all of you veterans think? Should I see violence soon before my plan is here? DO I cange my tactics and give him a little supply?
Hmmm
Be just nice enough to make it easier for you
your very pretty, by the way
oh my dear god
NC fierflie.
timmyboy
Believe in yourself!
Terri
Terri
Fierflie- Also, I forgot to tell you
that seems like a lot of back and forth drama
Fierflie on drama
i wonder if my x was just a straight up psychopath
I also lived with my ex for
Gracerella
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