Lying I

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#1 Apr 3 - 9PM
Deestarr
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Lying I

About lying......

I've read lots on here about N's lying.
I do believe that my exN did completely lie about things he liked etc in the idealization phase to get me hooked in but apart from a few lies I caught him out about in the past six months
I do believe that he was honest about most things?

Am I completely dillusional in thinking that most of the time he was honest??

Or am I better off for my own sake in not even trying to work out whether he did lots more lying that I never caught him out on??

I mean about 18 months ago he wasn't working much..... Do I assume he was cheating on me and spending time with another woman? I honestly believe that he didn't cheat on me.... I do believe that he got female attention from other women but I don't believe he slept with anyone else. Are they all cheaters??

Apr 4 - 9AM
Healingslowly_b...
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My freak lied about

Apr 4 - 9AM (Reply to #13)
wsh
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Mine too!

Apr 4 - 9AM
Deidre99
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They're not all cheaters, no.

Apr 4 - 2AM
Light in dark
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They can't help themselves from lying

Apr 4 - 4AM (Reply to #10)
Deestarr
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I'm NC

Apr 4 - 2AM
Trainwreck56
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HE TOLD MOMMY THAT I HIT HIM

Apr 4 - 2AM
sweetpeasarah
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Their whole bleedin life

Apr 4 - 2AM
Trainwreck56
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I figure what he told me about his past was just

Apr 3 - 11PM
Armed
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Interesting topic

Apr 4 - 2AM (Reply to #5)
Trainwreck56
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Mine would do things that were shady and

Apr 3 - 10PM
rosedewittbukater
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How do you tell

Apr 4 - 6AM (Reply to #3)
wsh
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Define "cheating"....

Apr 3 - 9PM
Renegade
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If it made him look good or