Looking for Advice re: LC

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#1 Apr 8 - 9AM
ThisIsTheEnd
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Looking for Advice re: LC

Hello Everyone,

I'm new here, and I posted my (ridiculously long) story earlier last night. I'm sorry for it's length but I had to get all of the poison out of me, and I already feel so so much better for it, so thank you for that.

I have a question/am seeking advice via LC. Unfortunately, I am starting to prepare to take the bar examination this July. My exN is too and there is only one bar review class in the entire state. This means that I will have to sit through a three hour class EVERY DAY with him for the next three months :( It is also extremely important that I limit distractions during this time, as the drama and pain from this relationship has already contributed to me failing the test once before.

I know that he is going to try and distract/destroy me and create drama for supply. He knows how vulnerable my position is right now (I found out that I had flunked the first time while at his house).

We have been NC for 1 month exactly, but this was following D&D # 8 four months previously.

I'm really anxious and scared for my emotional health and wellbeing. I can't afford to flunk this test again.

Any help and/or suggestions would be VERY much appreciated.

P.S. thank you all for simply existing. This forum has already made an incredible difference in my life just in the last two weeks. :)

Apr 9 - 12PM
mustmoveon
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You can do it!

Apr 9 - 12PM (Reply to #12)
Ophelia
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Wow, that's great advice, and

Apr 8 - 10AM
ruby01 (not verified)
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ThisIsTheEnd

Apr 8 - 10AM
Janie53
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Hmmm, that is a tough one. Is

Apr 8 - 10AM (Reply to #9)
phantom adoration
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Too much

Apr 8 - 10AM (Reply to #2)
ThisIsTheEnd
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Thanks Janie, Unfortunately I

Apr 8 - 10AM (Reply to #8)
Renegade
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I Just Went Through a Contested Court Case with the Narc

Apr 8 - 10AM (Reply to #3)
Janie53
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So definitely no other way

Apr 8 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
ThisIsTheEnd
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Thank you Everybody!! I

Apr 8 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
Janie53
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You need to act as though he

Apr 8 - 11PM (Reply to #7)
ThisIsTheEnd
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You are right. I'm

Apr 8 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
Renegade
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You're under no obligation to