It would be like, "Night of the Living Dead." On cue, a signal from space would activate all of us to obliterate all of the narcissists. If we only got *ours* . . .
Usually, Lady GaGa's songs involve "relationships" with Ns/Ps-
"Monster" (He ate my heart, then he ate my brain)
"Bad Romance" (I want your psycho, I want your disease)
But then she has songs from an N's/P's point of view-
"Fashion" (I'm so fabulous)
"I'm so happy I could die" (I touch myself/I'm as vain as I can be)
"I'm so happy I could die" is definitely from a Narc's/Psych's perspective, in which she tells a woman "I'll bend your world when the glass is empty."
Right im with you ,i have a cunning plan . In France they have more lenient sentencing for crimes of passion . So lets offer them a free trip to Paris ... Sorted ..
You know me, I refuse to say anything on here that may even slightly incriminate me. I'm all done with that. I don't trust these freaks as far as I can throw a stone, which is not very far in my case. Let's just say, I hear ya loud and clear. Anger is a natural part of the process and I think it is good because it gets you moving again. Hopefully, moving out of their direction eventually. They are train wrecks waiting to happen, for us and I believe to some extent or another for themselves. Everyone trips up eventually and when they do, I don't want to be around to watch it happen. My son's father deserted his son before he was born. My son is 24 now and his father always appeared to walk away scott free. He lied about me, his son, and everything else. At the time, this royally pissed me off. This is way before I knew the true definition of a Narc. He has had many many jackpots since then and the beautiful thing is that I did not have to lift a finger. He did these things all by himself. Revenge is fun in the planning stages, however, in the action it only comes back to haunt us. God and the universe will take care of them quite nicely without our help. May not be evident immediately but it will happen. It is a spiritual axiom that what goes around comes around, there is no escaping this fact.
"In traditional logic, an axiom or postulate is a proposition that is not proved or demonstrated but considered to be either self-evident, or subject to necessary decision. Therefore, its truth is taken for granted, and serves as a starting point for deducing and inferring other (theory dependent) truths."
I know you are a writer and know what this means. I just liked this definition and thought I would post it.
Your Narc is a flaming piece of shit and he is in power so he gets away with more than the average Joe, however, his day will come and I hope you are miles away when it happens. He is arrogant, toxic, self serving, and so full of himself it just about makes me want to puke. You on the other hand are bright, accomplished, a great mother, friend, and here for everyone on this site. Concentrate on your beauty for a change, he is a worthless cause.
God bless,
Goldie
The anger stage was fun. I felt similarly.
Unfortunately, or maybe fortunately, I'm sort of past that stage now, and on to the "indifference" stage.
Maybe someday I'll go through the anger stage again and help you. :)
You really need to move girl. If they were worth spending time in prison for, I would have shot mine long ago. That's why I knew I could never own a gun and have a golf club under the bed instead.
I really am moving on from the anger, but my next stage is disgust . . .
I don't know if you read, almostlydia, that my narc gave me knives for Christmas two years ago, and my ex husband took them last month so I wouldn't use them against him. Sad but starting to be funny . . . .
In a very dark way, that was so damn funny!
Believe me, I have had fantasies in the past, planned down to the minutest detail and it involved a cattle prod.
But he is not worth me doing time. If I'm going to the pokey, it sure as hell won't be over him!
nothing wrong with anger - but you got some catching up to do on the 'disgust' part. Your N has been disgusting me for quite some time and I don't even know him:)
Actually, that's REALLY funny.
Anytime you inspire fear in someone who deserves to feel your wrath, you're doing a good thing.
Ok, so that's not entirely the compassionate response I expect from myself, but it's ok to feel a little vengeful, as long as you don't let it rule your life or act on it.
My ex-Psych HATED HATED it when I told him I wanted him to be happy. That's not illegal... and telling someone you want them to be happy isn't considered creepy by any NORMAL standards (emphasis on normal here)
Threatening violence, creepy stalker-ish stuff, yes, that's unlawful. Besides, it doesn't work.
My ex-Psych is probably afraid that I'd want happiness for him (and everyone else)... and that is FINE with me.
No normal guy would freak if he got a card saying "May you and your wife enjoy many fruitful and joyful years together." But my ex-Psych? He'd probably go nuts. He's afraid of having a psychotic breakdown anyhow... since he knows the interiors of mental wards from a young age.
A fitting Lady GaGa song
Right im with you ,i have a
I hear ya!!
The anger stage was fun. I
You really need to move
almostlydia
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helldweller
nothing wrong with anger -
almostlydia
Actually, that's REALLY
Isn't happiness the best revenge?