Learning from this experience
Learning from this experience
I read in one of my books about narcissism that the N usually only goes after compassionate people. As I read this, I found it interesting because I think one of my weaknesses is that I am too compassionate.
So my question is, has anyone learned anything about themselves after leaving a relationship with an N? I feel that as painful as this whole ordeal was, and how low my N made me feel, I am walking away from it stronger, with more knowledge about this disorder and myself. I have learned that the first time a man disrespects me, or talks down to me, he is gone. I gave my N far too many chances. I have also learned I need to work on my self esteem that my N took away from me, and I also learned that I need to appreciate good hearted people who ARE capable of empathy.
My father is a narcissist, which is probably why I was drawn to mine in the first place. My mother spent 27 years with him. Now she is 3 years out, and happy then she ever has been. From my experience with my N, and through the knowledge of this website, I have so much more respect for my mother after all the years of hell she went through.
I am also thankful to this website, because I was strong enough to not fall for my N's fake apologies on Christmas Day, and I took control out of his hands by changing my phone number. I owe all of that strength to the knowledge I have gained from this site.
I have an appointment with my therapist on Wednesday, and look forward to telling her of my progress.
So does anyone else have anything that they have learned from their N about themselves? While I still hurt, I know that this experience will make me a stronger person.
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Trust no one
I've learned not to give
narcissists choose women who
My father is too, and my
helpmefromn
Yea, I guess that is just
what I have learned
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learning experience - helpmefromn
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nolongercontrolled
Thank you very much. I have